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Ever hate a song so much you'd risk being fired?

seriously? Quitting because you hate a song?

I always figured that my personal taste really has nothing to do with it. If it goes over well with audiences, then I get pleasure from it, whether I personally like it or not. If a song is working, I think it's silly (or arrogant) to refuse to play it.
 
Just looked it up. I think if I hadn't seen the video, I wouldn't have had the nauseous reaction to it that I had. Sorry honey, but a guy that pretty ain't calling you...or any girl for that matter ;)

It's times like this that I'm glad I play in bands that have no chance in hell of playing it. Would I play it? Absolutely I would, and I'd make the audience think I thought it was the greatest song ever written.
 
seriously? Quitting because you hate a song?

I always figured that my personal taste really has nothing to do with it. If it goes over well with audiences, then I get pleasure from it, whether I personally like it or not. If a song is working, I think it's silly (or arrogant) to refuse to play it.
That's pretty much my attitude. Yeah, I'm opposed to rock music, but I probably wouldn't be if I was still living in Texas and was playing to crowds that still liked rock. And I'm OK with playing not-so-rock covers of a few rock songs that people here do seem to like - the Pretty Reckless, los Rodriguez, early Shakira, and stuff from the K-On soundtrack all work.

I do actually like early Shakira songs, though. A Shakira tribute band playing all stuff from the first two albums... I'd be all over that!
 
Never heard it, watched the thing on youtube.

GEEZE.

Ok, where to start? Here I go.

This is all about "who am I?" and about the band "what are we?". We all have to compromise in a band, but there's also sometimes the band within the band (the seat of control). We would sit in band meetings and share lists of possible songs. We were similar enough to not have any total and absolute "NO" items on lists, with rare exceptions. The "I'm actually going to hurl and later quit if you want us to even consider practicing this horrid crap" look would engender respect and withdrawal of the proposal. This was very rare.

Otherwise, it's an opportunity. We made our BL pay for "Lucky Ones" and "Next To You" with a Sabbath MEDLEY, 3 extra Zep songs, an improvisational blues jam in E that got quite extreme indeed, and held off after pressing for all of that. Bottom line is respect, cooperation, knowing each other's limits, and being willing to grow and stretch - and keep an audience!

All of that being said, if I was in a band that wanted to play that stuff out for a paying audience, I would either refuse the gig or quit the band. That song is simply beyond the limit of "who am I?" and "what are we?". Taste is taste. "If your momma raised you on manure, you'd develop a taste for it." I wasn't raised on that kind of crap, and to me, it's beyond crap. WAYYYYY beyond.
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No one will even remember that song in 3 months. I'd wouldn't like it, but if I am in a top 40 cover band being paid to play, I'd do it. Of course I would crazy up the bass line and make it more interesting for myself so I could concentrate On not puking. Also, that song brings an inward smile to my face because my 5YO daughter ..."I like it because I can dance to it and sing it, but it's not jazz and it doesn't have enough bass" ...she gets it more than 97% of grown-ups.
 
I understand that some of you may be permanently scarred by lowering yourself to play something simple and I'm genuinely glad there are musicians like you to hold up that end of the equation. I can understand if peer pressure is too great or you're genuinely embarassed to play certain things. Particularly if for whatever reason you're limited to playing a carbon copy.

I mentioned this thread last night at a rehearsal for a three hour gig that pays $500 and includes many songs most of us wouldn't otherwise listen to, despite being a band full of accomplished musicians who can and do perform in a wide variety of musical styles. They understand that they can play what they like on other gigs, because there are other gigs. If the requirement for a particular gig is playing particular songs, something as benign as this song causing even an ounce of angst is just plain laughable. YMMV

They also appreciate that there aren't more folks willing to lower themselves. Seriously. Makes it that much easier to get the better paying gigs. Less competition. Because believe it or not, the better paying gigs generally are paid for by people who want to hear what THEY want to hear, not necessarily what YOU want to play.
:D

Thanks.
 
No one will even remember that song in 3 months. I'd wouldn't like it, but if I am in a top 40 cover band being paid to play, I'd do it. Of course I would crazy up the bass line and make it more interesting for myself so I could concentrate On not puking. Also, that song brings an inward smile to my face because my 5YO daughter ..."I like it because I can dance to it and sing it, but it's not jazz and it doesn't have enough bass" ...she gets it more than 97% of grown-ups.

Agreed.
 
I understand that some of you may be permanently scarred by lowering yourself to play something simple and I'm genuinely glad there are musicians like you to hold up that end of the equation. I can understand if peer pressure is too great or you're genuinely embarassed to play certain things. Particularly if for whatever reason you're limited to playing a carbon copy.

I mentioned this thread last night at a rehearsal for a three hour gig that pays $500 and includes many songs most of us wouldn't otherwise listen to, despite being a band full of accomplished musicians who can and do perform in a wide variety of musical styles. They understand that they can play what they like on other gigs, because there are other gigs. If the requirement for a particular gig is playing particular songs, something as benign as this song causing even an ounce of angst is just plain laughable. YMMV

They also appreciate that there aren't more folks willing to lower themselves. Seriously. Makes it that much easier to get the better paying gigs. Less competition. Because believe it or not, the better paying gigs generally are paid for by people who want to hear what THEY want to hear, not necessarily what YOU want to play.
:D

Thanks.

For a three hour gig paying $500 I'd play a medley of "Call Me Maybe", "Friday", and "Baby" and do a "Mustang Sally" encore if the person(s) paying us asked for it. For a Saturday night bar gig (where this episode started) with a table of inebriated patrons calling for a song that wasn't rehearsed, I'm stickin' to my set list. The fact that I don't like the song at all is gravy.
 
For a three hour gig paying $500 I'd play a medley of "Call Me Maybe", "Friday", and "Baby" and do a "Mustang Sally" encore if the person(s) paying us asked for it. For a Saturday night bar gig (where this episode started) with a table of inebriated patrons calling for a song that wasn't rehearsed, I'm stickin' to my set list. The fact that I don't like the song at all is gravy.

That's cool, I honestly don't see what difference where or how much you play it for... if you played it on a gig, you played it on a gig. Would you play it on the $500 gig if it wasn't rehearsed?
:D

It's like that old joke: a guy asks a woman if she'll sleep with him for a million dollars. Hesitantly, she say yes. Then he asks if she'll sleep with him for ten bucks.

"What kind of girl do you think I am" she replies angrily.

"We've already established that, now we're just haggling".
:D

This came up at the rehearsal because we have Usher's "Scream" on the setlist. Yeesh. And we're trying to make the most of it, as usual. How many songs can you make ffom four chords and "Ooh, baby, baby"?:rolleyes:


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That's cool, I honestly don't see what difference where or how much you play it for... if you played it on a gig, you played it on a gig. Would you play it on the $500 gig if it wasn't rehearsed?
:D

Everyone has a price, we're just haggling.

As a result of this thread, this song is stuck in my head again. :hmm:

Hey, Brad. I just met you and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe. :p