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First love broke my heart

#45
Dude, quit being such a creeper. If you were interested, you should have gotten her number when you were hanging out, even just under the pretense of being friends, just to show that initial interest. If not, you should have tried to go through her friends, and definitely not by showing up on her doorstep day after day. For all intents and purposes, you were only an acquaintance of hers, if that. I have really good friends who I wouldn't just randomly show up at their door without some kind of invitation. That's just creepy man.
 
#47
Derp said:
Hi everyone! I turned 15 last december. I have always made fun of teens who always keep bitchin about "love" and how "their life sucks", writing these terribly annoying emo statuses on facebook and everything. Whenever I talk to my buddies i'm all like "Teenage love? Pff... You kidding me? Total ********. I hate all that stuff. Why not go do something more interesting and useful than spending your time in that?"

Well...

As I mentioned earlier, I turned 15 last December. This March, the thing I feared stroke me. A friend of mine brought a friend of his who is a girl to a public event where I was. We spent some time all together in a group of 4-5 people, had a lot of fun. That day, I came home late. I got in my bed and suddenly thought of her. I instantly had a hard adrenaline rush, butterflies, dry mouth, i felt like my heart would jump out of my chest. I was sweating. I thought to myself "What the **** is happening to me? It feels horrible. I hate this ****. Am I sick? I can't handle it!". And suddenly I came to an epiphany: "Holy mother of crap! I'm in love! What should I do?!" I could't sleep that night. My bedsheets were all covered in cold sweat.

The next day, I found her on facebook and sent her a friend request. After a week, she still hadn't answered. I was so nervous. This was the first sign she didn't like me. But I couldn't get her out of my head. I wanted her too damn much to let go that fast. I got my guts together and knocked on her door. Nobody answered. I did it several days in a row. After the last attempt I got on my bike and sadly and at the same time kind of angrily rapidly started pedalling towards my house when one of a sudden she appeared on the street. I rolled towards her. Suddenly she started hysterically shouting at me stating that "I am stalking on her and that I want to rape her". Rape?! I'm 15 and she is 14... Really what the heck? I was shocked... The pretty cute sweet girl that was smiling at me while laughing like a kid and looking at me with her beautiful shining green eyes just a week ago... Being a total *****... I got onto my bike, put my headphones on, set "Master of puppets" and climbed up the hill to do some mountain biking to relax, disappearing in the fog... I forgot her soon after, but now, when I remember all this, I suffer, and I miss her, not the ***** on the foggy day, but that sweet green eyed blonde...

Thanks for taking my ****, TBers, really had to vent.

Post your stories on this thread and get it off.
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You were in love with someone you knew for less than a day?
 
#48
Jazz Ad said:
Daisy, I like you a whole lot
More than that bandit liked spoonin' that ro-bot
You are a diamond in the rough
or a flower surrounded by shrapnel and stuff
I will hang myself from my own tombstone
If within you, I cannot put my bone.

Sorry, been playing Borderlands lately.
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The most romantic thing I've ever heard *sniff* *sniff*
 
#49
ShredderMaximus said:
Dude, quit being such a creeper. If you were interested, you should have gotten her number when you were hanging out, even just under the pretense of being friends, just to show that initial interest. If not, you should have tried to go through her friends, and definitely not by showing up on her doorstep day after day. For all intents and purposes, you were only an acquaintance of hers, if that. I have really good friends who I wouldn't just randomly show up at their door without some kind of invitation. That's just creepy man.
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Well, this was a mistake. I'm only 15. Experience comes with age. I don't blame myself or anything, but I occasionally just miss her.
 
#50
Jazz Ad said:
Daisy, I like you a whole lot
More than that bandit liked spoonin' that ro-bot
You are a diamond in the rough
or a flower surrounded by shrapnel and stuff
I will hang myself from my own tombstone
If within you, I cannot put my bone.

Sorry, been playing Borderlands lately.
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That was one of my favorite parts of BL2. The ending of that mission was the best part though. :D
 
#52
Munjibunga said:
You were in love with someone you knew for less than a day?
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You'd be amazed what a good dose of hormones will do to you. I remember the exact feeling he's talking about. It is very close to a fight or flight adrenaline dump, for some reason, except you don't actually fight or flee so it makes you feel bad. It doesn't even have to be someone you know. I'm sure that, at some point in your life as young Munji, you felt something similar.

Love? Maybe not. But it happens. Just a part of being an adolescent human.

To the OP, I would just realize that you made an embarrassing TalkBass post, that we all make embarrassing TalkBass posts, that your feelings are going to suck for a while, that you'll always remember them, that you'll move on and laugh at how ridiculous you were. and how much you've learned since then.

No more energy really need be expended.
 
#53
Derp said:
Well, this was a mistake. I'm only 15. Experience comes with age. I don't blame myself or anything, but I occasionally just miss her.
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True true. Live and learn, and at least you learned your lesson early. Sorry if I came off harsh, but yeah. Cool your jets a little, homie, no guy wants the dreaded "creeper" title associated to their name. It can be VERY hard to shake, and worse than a second anus on your forehead when it comes to finding a sexy lady friend.
 
#54
oniman7 said:
You'd be amazed what a good dose of hormones will do to you. I remember the exact feeling he's talking about. It is very close to a fight or flight adrenaline dump, for some reason, except you don't actually fight or flee so it makes you feel bad. It doesn't even have to be someone you know. I'm sure that, at some point in your life as young Munji, you felt something similar.

Love? Maybe not. But it happens. Just a part of being an adolescent human.

To the OP, I would just realize that you made an embarrassing TalkBass post, that we all make embarrassing TalkBass posts, that your feelings are going to suck for a while, that you'll always remember them, that you'll move on and laugh at how ridiculous you were. and how much you've learned since then.

No more energy really need be expended.
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It's life. And If I consider all the ridiculous stuff I've done up to this point, I don't really worry about this post. (Although I regret starting this thread anyway) :D
 
#55
ShredderMaximus said:
True true. Live and learn, and at least you learned your lesson early. Sorry if I came off harsh, but yeah. Cool your jets a little, homie, no guy wants the dreaded "creeper" title associated to their name. It can be VERY hard to shake, and worse than a second anus on your forehead when it comes to finding a sexy lady friend.
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Came of harsh? Not at all. Thank you for your support.
 
#58
Derp said:
Don't worry, nobody except you guys and my best friend know about it.
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Be prepared for this not to be the case. With teenagers in general, but especially girls.

If you met her at a party she's got SOMEBODY that invited her that she may end up telling.

Just be you. Own your mistakes, be sincere, and don't get stepped on.

That's part of the whole "figuring out your social role" thing I talked about earlier.
 

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