The reason why a tube power amp should not be operated unloaded is because of ringing and back EMF spikes due to the inductive nature of the output transformer. This ringing can cause voltages greater than the designed breakdown voltages inside the transformer and break down the insulating system of the transformer. This can also carry back to the power tubes due to reflected signal being stepped up back through the transformer. This mechanism just doesn't exist with solid state amps.
This is very interesting, and it raises a couple other questions.
First, what do you mean by "ringing?"
Second, if by "ringing" you mean an actual ringing sound, I did in fact hear a very slight ringing (in the headphones) when I ran my 3.5 with no speaker load. It was slight enough that once I added music and bass it was no longer audible. Probably something else?
Third, why would the ringing and EMF spikes happen in a tube power amp but not in a tube pre amp? is it because there's no output transformer in the preamp?
Thanks again!
Chris