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Get off my LAWN! "Grumpy Old Farts"

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Yea, I just got off work and I have to go home and play mechanic. Oil Change, Lube, check the air in my tires, change my antifreeze.

Got a long drive down to the sticks in Central Kentucky for turkey dinner tomorrow.

I hate working on cars but at least it's not freezing out today.

Off to get greasy......

I used to love working on cars. Just technical enough to keep my mind off of the rest of the world. Peaceful. Now I hate every minute. I think this large bulge that's grown between my chest and waist has a lot to do with it.
Yeah, he's reached to me too. I think he's more of Prime Example.:thumbsup:

Knock it off you two. I'm getting all misty eyed.

I would have thought you would have said a reputation to keep down Jon, but I think we all got it! :thumbsup:

That's right. The lower the expectations, the better off I am. I gave up on self improvement years ago after discovering people expect more from a new improved version of me.

Speaking of expectations, I am just a bit disappointed in my own regression progress. After almost 33 years of marriage and careful honing, shaping and molding my wife's mind to expect nothing from me, I replaced a 60 year old wood kitchen window today. After finishing that, I told her it was done and she came out to look. She seemed quite happy, then asked, "You only finished one?" (of two) Very disappointed in myself and wondering why anyone would ever expect me to complete more than one task in a single day :( :( :( I guess I'll have to screw up the trim on the other or drop it and have to reorder.
 
That's right. The lower the expectations, the better off I am.
I hear you on that brother. I'm always feeling more confident when the bar is set so low it's more of a tripping hazard...and even then I frequently need a good running start to clear it! :)

On the window thing, I simply don't like doing two shows a day, and I never follow horse acts in a parade. On the first one I think doing one thing well beats doing multiple things poorly. There's always tomorrow and if the world ends tonight, one extra window isn't going to mean much one way or the other. On that second thing, with all due respect to agedhorse, I think we all know the perils there.
 
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I too had a diligent urologist who had been keeping an eye on my PSA and when things started changing, he did several biopsies over a year period until they found definitive signs of cancer at age 49. I was offered various radiation treatments as being "less invasive", but when I found out that they all caused so much scaring that it made any kind of follow-up surgery impossible if the cancer came back, I opted for a radical prostatectomy.



Unfortunately, I can verify that as being true. I went to one of the best surgeons at University of Michigan, but still wound up with permanent ED. They started the robotic surgery about 6 months after I had the conventional one. I tried some of the ED "treatments" they offered me, but they all had bad enough side effects that sex was about the last thing I wanted. They ran the gamut from the little blue pills that gave me raging 3 day migraines, tell them that it works out to be cheaper for them to pay for treating the cases of cancer that do occur, than it would be to pay for all that additional testing. Yeah, I'm cynical. Lack of sex can do that to you. :banghead: :rage: :poop:

Man I really feel for you, after having 30 years of horrible migraines, I think I would choose that solution on those special times and just sleep the headaches away for a couple of days, I'm retired what else do I need to do....
 
Thanks, but despite the side effects, I'm still grateful to the surgeon and his team for everything they did to keep me alive and kickin'.

Since it's almost Thanksgiving, I'd like to express my thanks and gratitude to all you guys (and your significant others) for the welcoming and supportive community you've built. I don't always speak up, and sometimes I do speak up and say dumb things, but you guys are very tolerant of goof balls like me and I appreciate it.
I'm really glad that everyone who has had to deal with health issues of their own or those of their families lately are doing OK and I hope all you GOF's and your families have a great holiday!
 
Thanks, but despite the side effects, I'm still grateful to the surgeon and his team for everything they did to keep me alive and kickin'.

Since it's almost Thanksgiving, I'd like to express my thanks and gratitude to all you guys (and your significant others) for the welcoming and supportive community you've built. I don't always speak up, and sometimes I do speak up and say dumb things, but you guys are very tolerant of goof balls like me and I appreciate it.
I'm really glad that everyone who has had to deal with health issues of their own or those of their families lately are doing OK and I hope all you GOF's and your families have a great holiday!
Right back atcha!
 
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I hear you on that brother. I'm always feeling more confident when the bar is set so low it's more of a tripping hazard...and even then I frequently need a good running start to clear it! :)

On the window thing, I simply don't like doing two shows a day, and I never follow horse acts in a parade. On the first one I think doing one thing well beat doing multiple things poorly. There's always tomorrow and if the world ends tonight, one extra window isn't going to mean much one way or the other. On that second thing, with all due respect to agedhorse, I think we all know the perils there.
Our H.S. Band wore white shoes. Our conductor said that if we were behind a horse unit in a parade to stay in file. We asked if he was gonna clean our shoes. End of discussion.:rollno:
 
I too had a diligent urologist who had been keeping an eye on my PSA and when things started changing, he did several biopsies over a year period until they found definitive signs of cancer at age 49. I was offered various radiation treatments as being "less invasive", but when I found out that they all caused so much scaring that it made any kind of follow-up surgery impossible if the cancer came back, I opted for a radical prostatectomy.



Unfortunately, I can verify that as being true. I went to one of the best surgeons at University of Michigan, but still wound up with permanent ED. They started the robotic surgery about 6 months after I had the conventional one. I tried some of the ED "treatments" they offered me, but they all had bad enough side effects that sex was about the last thing I wanted. They ran the gamut from the little blue pills that gave me raging 3 day migraines, to the self administered injections where you never want to be poked with a needle. When they told me that they could implant a tiny manual pump in my scrotum that could be pressed repeatedly to pump it up, I said no thanks and left it at that. Yeah, I could just picture it. "Not yet honey, I'm still trying to pump it up!"



Probably because the insurance companies have some actuarial tables that tell them that it works out to be cheaper for them to pay for treating the cases of cancer that do occur, than it would be to pay for all that additional testing. Yeah, I'm cynical. Lack of sex can do that to you. :banghead: :rage: :poop:
I was diagnosed in 2014. My urologist at the time tried to talk me into those radiation seeds. I investigated the other types of treatment, including proton radiation. In the end I went with the traditional "hands on" surgery with the supposed "guru" of the art in the area. All was good for 2 years, then had to follow up with radiation "salvage" treatments in 2016. Thankfully I didn't gain any additional side effects from the radiation, but ED & occasional leaking have been the reality since the surgery. It's worse after a couple of beers, so I limit my intake significantly. I just passed the 2 year mark after radiation. So far, so good.
 
Thanks, but despite the side effects, I'm still grateful to the surgeon and his team for everything they did to keep me alive and kickin'.

Since it's almost Thanksgiving, I'd like to express my thanks and gratitude to all you guys (and your significant others) for the welcoming and supportive community you've built. I don't always speak up, and sometimes I do speak up and say dumb things, but you guys are very tolerant of goof balls like me and I appreciate it.
I'm really glad that everyone who has had to deal with health issues of their own or those of their families lately are doing OK and I hope all you GOF's and your families have a great holiday!

Happy Thanksgiving, GOFs! I'm truly thankful for this warm, supportive group of human beings!

Thank you, TB Mods, for preserving the GOFs thread!

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Happy Thanksgiving to all.

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