Sorry for your loss, but it sounds like you already worked out the grieving process and you and your sister had a very realistic view of life and death, and you were prepared to handle it. That is such a great accomplishment in this short path of life we're on.
You both saw more of the world than I ever could wish for -- it's a blessing to be able to do that. It's funny, I had started on rhythm guitar and for years as a youngster fronted my own bands. But I could never find a good bass player. Then my dad was transferred to Sitka from Wrangell, and I met a new bunch of musicians. The two guitarists in the band kicked my arse but still liked my style and asked if I would mind trying bass. It was like throwing a duckling into the pond-- I knew instinctively that I found my permanent musical "forever home."
I lost my brother 10 years ago this year. Now I smile and laugh thinking about all the fun times we had while we traveled on the road as a touring band. If it brings any comfort to you, I still talk to my brother and believe he hears me. He also was my best friend.
You both saw more of the world than I ever could wish for -- it's a blessing to be able to do that. It's funny, I had started on rhythm guitar and for years as a youngster fronted my own bands. But I could never find a good bass player. Then my dad was transferred to Sitka from Wrangell, and I met a new bunch of musicians. The two guitarists in the band kicked my arse but still liked my style and asked if I would mind trying bass. It was like throwing a duckling into the pond-- I knew instinctively that I found my permanent musical "forever home."
I lost my brother 10 years ago this year. Now I smile and laugh thinking about all the fun times we had while we traveled on the road as a touring band. If it brings any comfort to you, I still talk to my brother and believe he hears me. He also was my best friend.
