My first few experiences at the GC on the Black Horse Pike in Mays Landing weren't so hot - the two 'sales associates' I talked to seemed shocked, shocked that a woman might be interested in playing bass guitar. I haven't seen either of those gentlemen in the last year or so. Since then, the newer hires treated me like someone who was serious about music & bass, and I've bought a fair amount of stuff as a result, and most of the guitarists & bass players on staff now know me pretty well. I usually do research online before I go in, and the few times I've asked questions I got good answers; one time I asked one of the guitarists a question about one of the GK amps, and he said, "I'm not a bass player, so I'm not sure; let me get ____, he plays bass and can answer your question better than I can."
I do frequent one of the two local mom & pop stores here (take lessons there too, I suspect a lot of their income comes from students like me - they teach a lot of adults like me, as opposed to mostly school-aged kids) as they have stuff for a decent price and give you a discount if you're one of their students. Problem is that it's a small store, not a lot of room for anything other than the most familiar stuff, and don't do a lot of special orders. So I end up going to GC for stuff the local store doesn't have - flatwound strings, longer cables (the longest one the local carries is 15'), and I got my used P bass there. I'll end up getting my head & cab there eventually as I want a GK set up, and the local only carries Fender and Ibanez rigs. If the local had GK I'd happily buy it there, even if it were a bit more expensive than GC - same for other stuff - as the local store is about 15 / 20 minutes from my front door while GC is a good 1 1/2 hours up the road - I usually go to GC when I'm going to be going to the Mays Landing mall (Borders, Suncoast Video, FYEs, BJs, Target, etc.) and am making a day of it; as a result I only get up there about once a month. All in all, since I've become known as a serious bass player, and someone who is willing to spend $$ to get the stuff I'm looking for, they've treated me pretty well; several of them even know my name and greet me when I come in. Considering how many customers probably come through their doors, I appreiciate that effort on their part. Of course, I also try to make trips to GC during the week while school is in session, so I avoid a lot of the wanking that goes on during non-school hours.
I've only been to the other local store twice - I'm not happy about the area it's located in, and their selection of products is really, really sad (at least compared to my want list, I'm sure there are others who want what they have, or they wouldn't still be in business!). Of course, local store #2 also has a full studio set up, and I suspect that a lot of their income come from renting studio space and running classes in Pro Tools...
There are also items I've ended up buying on line as neither the local store nor GC carried them, of course. I'd rather buy in person than online when I can (I'm one of those folks who likes to check stuff out, pick it up, etc. before buying) but it's not always possible. All in all, though, I've taken the time to figure out which stores have what on hand, what stuff I can special order through the local store and which they can't get for me, and act accordingly. As has been said above, if you 1) establish some sort of relationship with store staff, and b) do some research as to what you're looking at buying before you go shopping in person, you're most likely come out of any shopping situation with a better outcome. (How's that for psuedo-psycho-babble??) That is, of course, assuming that there are at least a few good people on staff in whichever store you're going to. I'll admit, if I'd kept meeting the "a woman interested in bass guitar? Really?!?!" attitude at the local GC, I would have quit going there even to try out instruments, etc. On the other hand, if I'd let my initial experiences there put me off GC for good, I would have missed out on some pretty good bargains some of the guys who work there have managed to help me get there when they saw something they knew I was interested in come up for sale, clearance, etc. Perhaps I have a somewhat thicker skin for stupidity than some other people (of course, dealing with it on an almost daily basis at the hotel I work at helps in that regard - compared to some of the stupid stuff some of our guests have pulled, and their extreme rudeness, even the dumbest & rudest GC 'sales associates' aren't all that bad...
I do frequent one of the two local mom & pop stores here (take lessons there too, I suspect a lot of their income comes from students like me - they teach a lot of adults like me, as opposed to mostly school-aged kids) as they have stuff for a decent price and give you a discount if you're one of their students. Problem is that it's a small store, not a lot of room for anything other than the most familiar stuff, and don't do a lot of special orders. So I end up going to GC for stuff the local store doesn't have - flatwound strings, longer cables (the longest one the local carries is 15'), and I got my used P bass there. I'll end up getting my head & cab there eventually as I want a GK set up, and the local only carries Fender and Ibanez rigs. If the local had GK I'd happily buy it there, even if it were a bit more expensive than GC - same for other stuff - as the local store is about 15 / 20 minutes from my front door while GC is a good 1 1/2 hours up the road - I usually go to GC when I'm going to be going to the Mays Landing mall (Borders, Suncoast Video, FYEs, BJs, Target, etc.) and am making a day of it; as a result I only get up there about once a month. All in all, since I've become known as a serious bass player, and someone who is willing to spend $$ to get the stuff I'm looking for, they've treated me pretty well; several of them even know my name and greet me when I come in. Considering how many customers probably come through their doors, I appreiciate that effort on their part. Of course, I also try to make trips to GC during the week while school is in session, so I avoid a lot of the wanking that goes on during non-school hours.
I've only been to the other local store twice - I'm not happy about the area it's located in, and their selection of products is really, really sad (at least compared to my want list, I'm sure there are others who want what they have, or they wouldn't still be in business!). Of course, local store #2 also has a full studio set up, and I suspect that a lot of their income come from renting studio space and running classes in Pro Tools...
There are also items I've ended up buying on line as neither the local store nor GC carried them, of course. I'd rather buy in person than online when I can (I'm one of those folks who likes to check stuff out, pick it up, etc. before buying) but it's not always possible. All in all, though, I've taken the time to figure out which stores have what on hand, what stuff I can special order through the local store and which they can't get for me, and act accordingly. As has been said above, if you 1) establish some sort of relationship with store staff, and b) do some research as to what you're looking at buying before you go shopping in person, you're most likely come out of any shopping situation with a better outcome. (How's that for psuedo-psycho-babble??) That is, of course, assuming that there are at least a few good people on staff in whichever store you're going to. I'll admit, if I'd kept meeting the "a woman interested in bass guitar? Really?!?!" attitude at the local GC, I would have quit going there even to try out instruments, etc. On the other hand, if I'd let my initial experiences there put me off GC for good, I would have missed out on some pretty good bargains some of the guys who work there have managed to help me get there when they saw something they knew I was interested in come up for sale, clearance, etc. Perhaps I have a somewhat thicker skin for stupidity than some other people (of course, dealing with it on an almost daily basis at the hotel I work at helps in that regard - compared to some of the stupid stuff some of our guests have pulled, and their extreme rudeness, even the dumbest & rudest GC 'sales associates' aren't all that bad...