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Help Me Choose A Divorce Bass

So I'm going through a divorce and signed the papers today. It's all good for the most part other than having to move from a four bedroom house to a one bedroom apartment! Good news is that I am not only getting out debt free but getting a settlement from the soon to be ex since she is keeping the house. So since I will have some extra cash in savings and no one to tell me what I can and can't buy I'm going to get a new bass! I'm wanting to stay around or below $1500 and I'm leaning toward something more modern with an active EQ. Here is what I'm looking at so far:

Ibanez SR 1900ENTL Premium. Love the look of this bass and the Nordstrand Big Singles!
Ibanez SR1900ENTL SR Premium - Natural Low Gloss
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Spector Legend Neck Thru: It has Aguilar pickups and preamp and I have always been a fan of the Spector body shape.
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Carvin/Kiesel Icon: I have wanted one of these for years and like that I can customize it.
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Would love to get opinions from those who own or have owned any of these. I'm also open to suggestions for other basses and they don't have to be new.


Those are 3 really nice basses ...

My first choice would be the Spector ... 2nd choice would be the Ibanez
 
The main reason I mentioned the divorce was to see if anyone else had purchased a "divorce bass". There have been several replies that stated they did purchase a new bass after a divorce, so I guess I'm not alone in my thinking.
OK, I guess I see. Is it a way to reach out to others who are also going through a divorce.
Anyway, best wishes for you going forward.
 
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Rather than another bass... do you play drums? Like to? Drums are cool because, perhaps more so than with any other instrument, it's still a barrel of fun even if you suck. And it's very cathartic. I enjoy the physical aspect of drums as much as anything. Plus, even when you're playing aggressively, with other instruments, hitting "hard" is still extremely controlled. You can grab a a pair of 2B's and wail the living daylights out of an 8x14 snare drum and not hurt anything but your ears and relationships with the neighbors.

+! on post-divorce drumset. Own three drumsets myself (not post-divorce). Cathartic is the word! Drums are physical. Drums are fun. AND learning a bit of drums will make you a much better bass player better to understand what it is that makes the groove.
 
Listen to yourself.

She got the house. I got the 1 bedroom apartment. I will have some cash. Instead of keeping it for a house or condo I'm going to buy a new bass that will soon be worth half of what I paid.

Now more than ever you need to use your head.

Now that there is no longer a need to be unreasonable, just start going around high end bass stores looking at used basses! That way you can have a NBD of something twice as expensive as what you could afford new and you won't loose half your money as soon as you buy it. Just sayin'. (I've always had great luck with TB classifieds too. Great bunch of guys here)
 
There are actually a few shops in the KC area I have not been to in a while. There used to be a nice shop at 95th and Quivera but I can't remember the name of it to see if it is still there. I was thinking about going to Columbia. There are several stores there and I could take my bike and ride part of the Katy Trail on the way. Plus I could get some White Castles while I'm in Columbia!

The shop on 95th and Quivera is called Guitar Dock. Its still there just around the corner of sorts. Its over by the Applebee's and Panda Express now. Columbia....not sure a brand new MM for $100 is worth stepping foot in that God forsaken town. Rock Chalk! ;)
 
The shop on 95th and Quivera is called Guitar Dock. Its still there just around the corner of sorts. Its over by the Applebee's and Panda Express now. Columbia....not sure a brand new MM for $100 is worth stepping foot in that God forsaken town. Rock Chalk! ;)

LOL! I have no allegiance to either school but at least they have White Castle in Columbia! A trip to Lawrence might be a good idea though so I can go to Mass St. Music. I will check out Guitar Dock online and see if they have anything worth seeing in person.
 
Listen to yourself.

She got the house. I got the 1 bedroom apartment. I will have some cash. Instead of keeping it for a house or condo I'm going to buy a new bass that will soon be worth half of what I paid.

Now more than ever you need to use your head.

I have spent most of my adult life being practical! I have no credit card debt or car payment. I have already worked out my monthly living expenses and I will be able to put several hundred dollars a month aside in a savings account as well as contributing a higher percentage to my retirement account. I spent 11 of the 15 years of this relationship in a house built in 1880 that I put a lot of work in to. I'm actually looking forward to not having to do maintenance and upkeep on a home for a while! I currently have four basses, the most expensive of which was $280 from Craigslist. The logical side of me may win out and I may not end up spending anywhere near $1500 on a new bass, but I do have the opportunity to get something nice and I plan on taking advantage of it!
 
I will shamelessly suggest something not in your original list, but that may have been mentioned between pages 3 and 9 since I stopped reading after page 2....

It's generally twice the original budget and I have no idea how it plays since I've never gotten my hands on one but it sure is gorgeous nonetheless:

PRS Gary Grainger 5?

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Or this RAD finish called "leprechaun tooth"..... God it's purdy

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This scares me, do I even want to get married?
As a musician, you should carefully choose a mate who can appreciate your love and passion for music. It is so sad when your companion just doesn't get it. Of course, this is not the only reason people get married (having shared interests). However, this is a bass forum, so I will keep my comments related to music in general. Musicians need space and time in order to practice, create and develop their gift to it's fullest potential. This is of course understood that, once you are married you have to work at having a "happy home". Which means there is a lot of sacrifice, that sometimes translates into frustration, as there may not be enough time to devote to improving your musical abilities. If you are a single person, make the most of your freedom now. You will thank me later...lol
 
I have spent most of my adult life being practical! I have no credit card debt or car payment. I have already worked out my monthly living expenses and I will be able to put several hundred dollars a month aside in a savings account as well as contributing a higher percentage to my retirement account. I spent 11 of the 15 years of this relationship in a house built in 1880 that I put a lot of work in to. I'm actually looking forward to not having to do maintenance and upkeep on a home for a while! I currently have four basses, the most expensive of which was $280 from Craigslist. The logical side of me may win out and I may not end up spending anywhere near $1500 on a new bass, but I do have the opportunity to get something nice and I plan on taking advantage of it!
Dude. Now is the time to get whichever bass you want, just for once in your life. Best of luck!