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I'm now at the age when the girls offer to help me across the road!.....sigh... :(
Why did @Fat Freddy cross the road?

So he can pick up chicks.


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I had a very attractive woman ask me to go to her hotel after a gig. My wife was standing next to me and the woman walked up and asked what I was doing now that the show was over. She mentioned that she had a hotel room near by. I politely told her that I was going home with my wife. She then asked about the guitar player. I said " He's over there with his wife. Why don't you go ask him". At that point she left. My wife then asked "How often does that happen?" I responded with "Not often enough or maybe once too often. It all depends on your point of view".
 
It's such a fascinating process, this whole attracting women thing.

I head out of town for a weekend to gig and I find that the bass player thing sorta kinda left a cool impression with this mid-twenties gal who was actually quite fetching.

I'll be married in a month and a half, so I gave no thought to her obvious attempts at flirting. I was nice, but let her know I am engaged. I left town still faithful, but with an honest friend, at the very least.

My only gripe... Why didn't this bass thing work out like this when I was a teen?! :roflmao:


Not bass related, but a woman hit on me 2 hours before I was going to get married.... slipped me a note saying "I don't normally do this, but there is something about you..." and asking me to call her. I was wearing my tux, for crissakes.
 
I had a very attractive woman ask me to go to her hotel after a gig. My wife was standing next to me and the woman walked up and asked what I was doing now that the show was over. She mentioned that she had a hotel room near by. I politely told her that I was going home with my wife. She then asked about the guitar player. I said " He's over there with his wife. Why don't you go ask him". At that point she left. My wife then asked "How often does that happen?" I responded with "Not often enough or maybe once too often. It all depends on your point of view".

LOL! Perfect. :thumbsup::roflmao:

At least that's better than the time I was with my lady in NYC and a hooker propositioned me. She just said "how about it?" and quoted her going rate. I said I'm with her, and put my arm around my GF. The working woman smiled and said that was cool by her. She "liked girls too," so "same price."

Only in NYC. :smug:
 
It's such a fascinating process, this whole attracting women thing.

I head out of town for a weekend to gig and I find that the bass player thing sorta kinda left a cool impression with this mid-twenties gal who was actually quite fetching.

I'll be married in a month and a half, so I gave no thought to her obvious attempts at flirting. I was nice, but let her know I am engaged. I left town still faithful, but with an honest friend, at the very least.

My only gripe... Why didn't this bass thing work out like this when I was a teen?! :roflmao:

do you wear an engagement ring? i ask because many guy friends of mine have never been hit on by chicks in their lives till other women realized that they had a wife/fiance/steady girlfriend.
 
......And being a shy guy back then, girls chased me.

Looking back now I realize I was chased by girls from my teens thru my late 20's but was either too oblivious to see it or I had my head buried under a hood somewhere, swapping cams and carburetors. While my friends were chasing skirts I was chasing a lower et slip at the track.

Fast forward to 49 and I still get hit on occasionally. Nice gesture, but I'm happily married..... and still swapping cams & carbs looking for that extra tenth of a second.
 
do you wear an engagement ring? i ask because many guy friends of mine have never been hit on by chicks in their lives till other women realized that they had a wife/fiance/steady girlfriend.
Thanks pcake, I put my complete failure with hot girls (well any girls really) down to just being a dork, I never considered that not wearing a ring was the reason. (I never wore a ring after getting one hooked up on something and was so close to losing a finger.)
 
Be careful what you ask for! Proud to say I've never cheated on my wife. Not always easy. BUT I've seen too many folks totally screw (see what I did there?) up their lives by thinking with their genitalia, and not their brain. I didn't get married until my thirties (read between the lines). When I said "I do" I was ready.
 
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