Get a room!Amen to this. We tend to have some kind of martyrdom playing this ungainly instrument.
Growing musically up in the 1990'ies I certainly heard my share of opinions on string height (HIGH!) and sitting vs standing ("Bass is a stand-up instrument"!). This came from a needed disassociation from the bass sounds of the 70'ies and 80'ies, but went too far in the other direction.
I always fret about not having enough volume and punch acoustically, leading me to overplay and thereby actually ending up with a thinner, more pointy tone.
This is especially true with my new, or rather very old, small bass. When I just caress it more, it sounds beautiful,
but in the heat of interplay it's hard not to dig in, choking the tone in the process.
There is a “free-Jazz” player in Holland. I forget his name. Oh, Wilburt deJoode I think. Plays a 5/8th Cole with guts. I could hardly get anything out of it but he made it sound huge. Set ups and size correlate to playing styles. I studied a bit with William Parker. I though his set up was hard to play but he had no problems with it. Then again I’ve played buttery set ups that I also couldn’t get a sound out of. So it’s the combination of many factors. I’m sure my lower height solos have made me change the way I draw sound. But I figured it out.