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What are your thoughts on gig attire? I play in a local originals rock/indie group, nothing major or much of a following but we’re starting to get some traction. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what to wear to gigs, what I should wear anyway. Normally my mind set has been wear what’s comfortable, casual, but not sloppy; but lately we’ve played with a few band that really have a “look” so to say. Nothing outrageous like costumes, but something of a theme amongst them. I think it looks pretty good onstage, but they kinda look like tools before/after the set. I suppose the best scenario would be something inconspicuous but distinctive...what’s others’ rule of thumb when dressing for a gig, do looks really matter that much?
Point is who cares people want to be wowed with music. That’s what gets those butts moving on the floor not that your tie matches your bass color.
That is NOT a universal truth.
Some people in some audiences DO care, and if you're playing to that audience, it matters. As for grunge, do you really pretend to know nothing about fashion and rebellion? In the 1950s, getting up on stage with jeans and a white tee shirt probably looked like you were saying that style didn't matter, but in actual fact that WAS a style, and it mattered very much to an audience who wanted to make a break from a previous generation.
Same with the hippie look in the 60s, punk in the 70s, and so on. "Looks don't matter, it's about the music" is a look, and it matters to a certain audience. Meanwhile, there's another audience to whom looks do matter. Kiss wouldn't be Kiss without the makeup. If you want to say that Gene Simmons is a poopie bassist who needed to dress up to become a millionaire, shrug. He performed, his fans were happy. Saying his costume didn't matter is flat-out wrong. It mattered in that place, at that time, for that audience.
Today, there are audiences for whom it still matters. Maybe you think it's not you and not your audience. Maybe. But there are still millions of people who have expectations around what a country band looks like, or how a thrash metal band behaves on stage, or whether an absolutely brilliant double bass player should wear black tie during a concert.
But back to the 90s.
Do you seriously think Nirvana would have been just as popular if they had worn black tie and tails on stage? Why did they have music videos at all? Affecting a look of not caring what you wear is just as much of a social signal as carefully choosing what to wear... because you are carefully choosing what you wear, while loudly trumpeting that you don't care what you wear.
Come on. You can't get through high school without realizing that "Style doesn't matter" is, in fact, a style. And that style and social signalling matters to the vast majority of the world. There is no absolute "It doesn't matter what you wear on stage, all that matters is the music" rule, because humans are humans, and humans care about what humans wear.
Looks matter when designing a home, purchasing a car painting rooms in your home but not everyone cares about fashion. You make a very broad and well baseless statement in this...
Riiiiiiiight. So if you and your crew are hanging out, and I show up wearing a silver jumpsuit, you wouldn't even notice because where you come from, style doesn't matter and nobody cares. Right?
No. You'd be making judgments like, "He is one of those fashion weenies who cares about style on stage, and we're not, Hurr Durr! He's from the wrong tribe."
You're human, and you sound just like every other teenager rebelliously declaring that they're above petty things like fashion, while dressing in a way that communicates that they belong to the tribe of people making a statement about clothes that make a statement.
But please do carry on saying that style doesn't matter to people. I have a bottomless bucket of popcorn.
Disclaimer: This thread is for entertainment purposes only. I'm not that invested in it beyond sharing chuckles with you and everyone on TalkBass.com.
No we wouldn’t cause you wouldn’t come by where me and crew are at.
There you are proving my point. You're a tribalist through-and-through, and yes, your clothing choices are part of that.
Nobody who poses in military fatigues with a Humvee can get away with pretending that they don't care how they look. COME ON. You must be trolling me.
As for where your crew are at, well, if you play a lot of White Supremacist music at Trump Rallies, you may be right. And if you're a serviceman or veteran, you are correct that I am not and have not been in the Canadian Armed Forces.
Other than that, I've been to a lot of places myself in the last 56 years, enough to never presume whether strangers could or would ever pass through my "neighbourhood."
That must be hard, almost baffling, to accept that there are indeed people who really dont give a sh*t about this crap.Your explanation of not caring what you wear is a statement in itself I agree and the statement is they don’t care..