Doors that "should've stayed closed"?...why? Are you saying that an 18 year old male who could play at that level, would have doors slammed in his face because he didn't have curls and a nice shape to his body?
Yes, that is exactly what I am saying.
Sounds like a bit of that jealousy that was mentioned.
Just of those fantastic curls...
We have to create our own opportunity mostly, but it's what happens after we/she walks through said doors, that secures the gig.
Mostly agreed. I never said Tal couldn't score or didn't deserve the gigs she has played, but the aforementioned 'doors' in all likelyhood wouldn't have been open for some 18 yo dude with identical chops and feel. There are, I would confidently wager, hundreds of males of varying ages that can play the same level or higher who haven't gotten anywhere near as far because they don't have the novelty value.
She's better than a lot of guys, too. Skill knows no gender. You either have it or you don't regardless of sex, race, age, etc. IMHO, she's a great bassist among a lot of other individuals that I think are great.
(kidding). I've seen a lot of them over the years (usually in clubs) that seem to get by on looks and image alone. I think those are the one's I'm thinking of. There are just a lot of girls that don't have a lot of interest in actually getting GOOD. I think that's part of the reason why I get so inspired by people like Tal and MeShell. They are definately representing.
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