Lotta good advice here. Not trying to be a wet blanket here, but these are all things I realized on my own journey to be a pro bassist. A goal which I ultimately changed, because I discovered I wanted a family and a house and insurance and stuff more than I wanted to be a pro bassist. I mention all these because most of it was stuff I was willing to put up with as a 20year old, but wouldn’t tolerate as a 30 year old
1. You’re 30. I don’t know what your income situation is like, but how do you feel about being broke for a long time. Maybe forever. The most successful bassists I know that aren’t big time names hustle. They teach, they produce, they gig, they do session work. It’s like an 18 hour a day job, but those guys make a decent living. That’s the only way to do it. You gotta get your fingers in multiple pies to make it work and have stability, so when one gig gets cancelled you can still make your car payment with other gigs.
2. As a pro musician, gigs occur when everyone else is having fun. Which means you work while everyone else plays. This can be a problem for family life for some people.
3. This may not be as big an issue for you, but it’s kinda weird taking your hobby, something you love, and making it your business. It can make it less enjoyable. You may find yourself playing a style of music you hate just to pay the bills. All of a sudden something you used to do to relieve stress actually becomes a point of stress. What do you do for fun now?
4. This may be different for you in the Netherlands, but in the U.S. you have to make a lot more money than you think you have to if you want to have things a normal job would provide. Things like a retirement plan and health insurance will have to come out of your pocket.
I’m not saying don’t follow your dreams, I’m not saying you can’t do it, I just want to share some things I learned along the way. To loosely quote Maynard from Tool, “this cloud is not the rock I thought it would be”