Not sure I really want to step into this hornet's nest.....but what the heck. I see your point that making a major change to one's band just because some random patron thinks you should is not sensible, BUT I also think its foolish to not listen to and at least consider what Joe The Plumber has to say about your music, or stage show, or whatever. There is nothing that psychs me out on a gig more than seeing patrons up and leave when we start a show. Should I take it personally? Probably not. But I enjoy it when I see people enjoying our shows. It may just be a particular song in a set that people just don't seem to get, in which case we may shelve that song and re-work it or just ditch it all together. I play for me, but I also play for playing out and the more people the better. Like it or not, the latter requires playing what and how people want.
I'm no hornet, more like a teddy bear that gets angry sometimes... and mauls someone...
"But I enjoy it when I see people enjoying our shows."
So do we. I hope I didn't make it sound like we don't. hahaha We've had one show where I could tell that most of the people there were not into it. But we had a small handful of people banging their heads and enjoying it, and at that point, the people there who don't like us, don't matter. We always listen to peoples suggestions, but unless it's something we really want to do, we're not doing it.
"It may just be a particular song in a set that people just don't seem to get, in which case we may shelve that song and re-work it or just ditch it all together."
See, we wouldn't, unless we didn't like the song. We had a song that we never played live or anything and we ended up ditching it because it just didn't seem right. If a whole crowd came up to us and told us that one of our favorite songs to play was no good, we'd listen and all, but as long as we like it, it stays.
And to get things back towards the topic at hand, we wouldn't change anything about our live show either... We had a venue book us, and when we showed up with the normal 3 amps and 5 cabs, the venue owner asked me at least three times "do you really need all that". We weren't about to give this crowd what we felt would be a crappy show by only using part of my rig, so I politely but firmly told the guy..."this is what we use, all the time..." After the show he expressed interest in having us play again... Time will tell if he meant it though.
PS
I'd like to take back the teddy bear comment. I want to be a kick ass penguin.
