Well stated sir.

I speak only for myself the following:
I was blessed 30 years ago to pick up an old Kay DB in school and learn to play a few things. As a slabber, I had SOME technique that transferred and I was able to play in the orchestra in a couple of High School musicals. My studies continued in college as a DB major for two years, studying with the principal of the then Kansas City Philharmonic.
I was, about four years into it, a mediocre player at best.
As is an all too common story, wife, kids and career led me to give up playing for many years. I sorely missed playing, but just couldn't find the time, energy or money to play again. That changed over four years ago.
I bought a nice plywood bass and called the best teacher in town and began lessons. When he asked me what I wanted to learn, I told him I wanted to learn the fundamentals. I wanted to get back into jazz, but he taught me proper technique using Simandl fingering. He told me once during a lesson, 'If I didn't think you were serious; just looking to play the gig and take your money I wouldn't teach you.' Those who teach, honor and respect their profession and want to leave a legacy.
Talkbass was very, very helpful to me then and I read everything I could about all things DB. The Newbie links became very familiar. UncleToad, Fitz, Ken Smith, Arnold Schnitzer, Drurb and many, many other dedicated people helped me tremendously in acquiring the knowledge about the instrument, strings and equipment helpful in getting the most enjoyment from playing that I could. I probably lurked here for a year or so before posting and only later starting a thread. There is still much to learn.
Sadly, many of the more experienced here have been pushed out or just given up and left. What a loss.
If someone truly wants to enter a serious relationship with a DB and approach the instrument with the respect it deserves, I am very happy to share what knowledge and advice I have. Forgive me if I seem impatient with those I sense may not take the instrument as seriously as I and those who came before me do. I apologize if this sounds exclusive or elitist to Cindy or any other noob. Please try to see that learning is a two way street, a dialog. It isn't effective when approached as a drive-thru window.
