I agree, there are always exceptions. A singer I knew who was in a really popular 80's band told me that the drummer and guitar player refused to be on stage at the same time for sound checks. When they performed you'd never know, but the minute they were off stage, they'd go in opposite directions.Fleetwood Mac managed to !! "Rumours" was created during a time they could barely deal with each other
but I get it. for most of us, this is a hobby. fun. when it becomes toxic, "fun" goes out the window
For we mere mortals though, ...