Do you mind if I make a VERY small correction to your French? You can tell me to f**k off if you want (added bonus: I'll tell you how to say that in French, too). So if you're okay with it, here goes:
Where you say, "...to give their tone that certain
je-ne-sais-croix that it adds..."
The
'croix' (cross) should be
'quoi' (what). That's it, that's all, didn't hurt too much, did it?
Your use is 100% correct, perfect. What's confusing is that they sound
almost exactly the same, i.e. "zhun say kwah" vs. "zhun say k(r)wah" but the 'r' is pretty much dead silent (FYI: the ''zh' = the 's' in trea
sure) Saying one instead of the other out loud and you'll get away with it 99.5 times out of 100, so I totally get the confusion.
Things you just taught me (thank you!):
- You can either use or not use the hyphens (dashes)
- You can either put it in italics, or not - it's a foreign word/phrase that most people know
If you are one of
those people who
don't know
(cringe, look over one shoulder, then the other...), or you kinda know, but you're not 100% sure:
- It's for when you mean something, usually pleasant, that can't be described, there is no word for.
Think of a women (or a man, we're not judging!) who's not great looking, doesn't have a great body, or wear designer clothes, but there's just SOMETHING about them... You drop things when they're around, and you think about them when they're not. Then you'd say they have a certain
je ne sais quoi -or- je-ne-sais-quoi.
Okay, I promised you something else: How to say "F off" in French. (My wife would so kill me for putting this on a website!) Remember I'm in Québec, they might say it differently in France, but I don't think so. You say,
"Va chier!" and it's pronounced
"VAH-SHE-AY!" You can also think of it as
"VASH-YAY!" if it sticks in your head better like that.
Either way, I guarantee you will get a reaction when you say this to a French (or Quebecois) person. Be warned, if you're joking, you'd better know them
very well. And if you're not, well... you'd better be ready to fight. Lesson over. Ciao, as we say up here in La Belle Province...