ok Mr. Devo James Brown your right i cant read but I've been playing for over 35 years,and
every style of music you can think of ,
mariachi,country,latin rock,rock top 40 funkalypso,R&B ,soul Motown,Tex mex ,Tejano and Blues,and I was always playing,i would learn everything by ear,I tried to learn to read but it was boring and it made me feel like i was starting over from scratch,besides i was to busy rehearsing and playing to even have the time to learn to read,maybe its not an expert opinion but my experiance can sure speak for itself...:
Dixieland, bluegrass, swing, big band, light opera, theater scores, symphony orchestra, chamber orchestra, baroque, medieval, renaissance, disco, punk, metal, fusion, arena rock
Just a few additional styles I've been involved with in the last couple years to some extent. Some don't really need to be written, but some are impossible to perform without written parts. I was doing 2 hour sets every weekend - all different music each week. Maybe on one occasion did I do the same song on back to back gigs, but they were in different states.
I challenge you to perform 2 hours of new material at a professional level every week without reading.
Try this one out. It's similar to sweet child o mine. Not especially difficult and well received by crowds.
Here's the recording to learn by ear, [Invalid or Expired Link Removed]. It's called the Italian symphony. The legit version of sweet child o mine. Neither are particularly difficult and a typical example of something done on a weekend gig with 1 week of prep time.
Seriously, a professional bassist can do this in his sleep. Then hit a blues jam that night and tear it up.
If all you want to do is lay down a groove and jam with your buds, you probably don't need to read to enjoy life. I enjoy Shakespeare and I enjoy looney tunes and bugs bunny, but I hate slasher pics. They all have merit and liking one doesn't mean you
must exclude the other. Enjoy the doing what you like and who cares what others think. You can have a fine rewarding life not reading, but you are missing out.