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My Situation

Obviously you've compensated for your dejection from being dumped by former girlfriends by getting back at them by sculpting your body with White Castle sliders. In fact, you almost look like a White Castle slider.

I must have set the shutter speed too fast. Otherwise you'd see my boxers flapping as I'm farting at you.
 
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I think il be able to get through this. My best friend who I hadn't seen in a long time called me up today and we hung out for like 3 hours. Took my mind off things reminiscing about the days when we use to go to school. I'm not gonna lie, it didn't take my mind off the situation 100% but it helped a lot.

Sorry for doubting all you guys that told me to go hang out with my buds. I honestly thought if I did that I would just be miserable and not have a good time but I was wrong.
 
I think il be able to get through this. My best friend who I hadn't seen in a long time called me up today and we hung out for like 3 hours. Took my mind off things reminiscing about the days when we use to go to school. I'm not gonna lie, it didn't take my mind off the situation 100% but it helped a lot.

Sorry for doubting all you guys that told me to go hang out with my buds. I honestly thought if I did that I would just be miserable and not have a good time but I was wrong.

Every day it's going to hurt a little worse. Pretty soon you'll go a day without it even crossing your mind. About that time, you'll probably find yourself feeling the need for a new slice o' pie.
 
I think il be able to get through this. My best friend who I hadn't seen in a long time called me up today and we hung out for like 3 hours. Took my mind off things reminiscing about the days when we use to go to school. I'm not gonna lie, it didn't take my mind off the situation 100% but it helped a lot.

Sorry for doubting all you guys that told me to go hang out with my buds. I honestly thought if I did that I would just be miserable and not have a good time but I was wrong.

There you go little buddy. You gotta listen to your skipper.
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Don't get me wrong guys, I appreciate your advice and I honestly do try to go through with it. But I can't. I'm not being some little puss sitting around all day crying, but if I could just snap my fingers and act another way about her I would. Trust me I would love for that to happen. But when I try to act like I can ignore her calls, or I stop thinking about her, or that I can move on and get her out of my life, I get scared. I'm not gonna lie, I get so scared. I get scared that one of those phone calls might be her calling to tell me that she wants to get back together, and if I don't answer she will think "well **** you then" and change her mind. I'm scared if I ignore her that she will think I don't love her anymore and that will make her move on and forget about me when that is not what I want. And no matter how hard I try to think differently about it, it's like it just replays over and over and over again in my mind until I just totally break down and have to call/txt her.

I just can't win with this situation and it's horrible.

you are 19. you need to be a man now. SHE IS GOING TO CALL YOU. understand that, but it's for the wrong reason. she is going to call you after she gets used by this other dude and he throws her to the side and ignores her, AFTER he has used her for what he wants. SEX. you want some dudes sloppy seconds? christmas!

think about this, and get angry. SHE IS HAVING SEX WITH THIS GUY RIGHT NOW. ALL THOSE GREAT THINGS SHE DID TO YOU, SHE IS DOING TO HIM. time to get the **** over it.

this will be my last post. i hope you make a thread in a few days saying you got laid and are over her, but i won't be reading this thread again.
 
If anyone cares it's been almost 2 months and I got a new girlfriend and im soooooooooooooo much more happier than I was. I also have a bunch of friends, more than ive ever had in my life, so people are always over at my place and it's awesome.

Just so much stuff has changed, it's crazy, but I just thought id give a little update.