My band is practicing in our studio without amps.. we use a Berhinger X32 console and a headphone amp so everyone has their own channel with volume controls.. Drums are electronic and go into the board also. I record the sessions with a Tascam Dr-44WL. My problem is that I cant hear myself in the mix. I'm tired of constantly asking the guitar player to give me more gain (he runs the board from the other side of the room). Sometimes I turn on my bass pre-amp for more boost, but he compensates saying I'm red lining the board. I want to be able to control my volume on my own and also hear the mix without interfering with the signal going to the board. What do I buy?