I use a km 185, without an additional pickup, with all my gigs (bigband, small group, with pa, without, etc). As with all mics, you have to take into account that the way you are positioned relative to yout fellow musicians and amp/monitor, but that has become an automatism for me. There is always some bleed, especially from the drums, but not in a disturbing way (and I sometimes play with LOUD drummers!). As regards the proximity effect: the KM 185 has a high pas filter built in to compensate for this. I have my mic about 20 cm from the top of the bass, and there is no lack, nor exaggeration, of the low end.
In short: this mic enables me to hear my bass, "only louder", in a relatively unproblematic manner!
Cheers,
Vincent