I've seen a number of things brought up: Shirtless Sunglasses on stage Talking in a fake British Accent Wearing your bass really low etc. Any of these things could be considered "douchey" by the players on this board, but in and of themselves, they really aren't. By that, I mean, they could work. I am not fashion conscious. Last I heard, wearing your hair like it's 1973 isn't considered that cool, and wearing fringe leather jackets isn't cool either, and I shouldn't wear a straw cowboy hat because Bret Michaels ruined that, and I shouldn't wear tank tops, or tight shirts, either. But I am myself, and I will be myself, and no one will ever be able to tell me that isn't cool, because it is.