I think it would be fine to post his name. If you can find his e-mail or some old PMs we could figure out who it is.
I think the idea of this thread is to share who is good to deal with (the vast majority) and who we should stay away from.
I appreciate the opportunity to share my experience with other TB members. My reasoning for not wanting to share the guys name was multifold:
1)I didn't want to sound like a jerk, airing my unfortunate personal business with anyone who would listen
2)I didn't want to violate the spirit and purpose of any existing posts
3)and lastly...it was just plain embarassing
His name is Joe Pazdan and is from Maryland and at the time was playing in a band called "Red Dog Red". I don't have anymore info other than that, it happened a while ago and I have since replaced the hard drive on my computer so I lost alot of old info. We communicated exclusively through the email (another mistake on my part, I should have used PM in order to create more of a paper trail)
He has happily turned out to be the exception and not the rule here on Talkbass.