Hi,
I've got nothing against "loud".
Excess volume is what I don't appreciate, volume for volume's sake. Sometimes the acoustics of the room will limit your acceptable decibel levels and no amount of EQ will "fix" it. I don't care what kind of music you play, if you are hurting your audience you are not doing them a service and need to turn down.
Dynamics are more exciting than just "loud". I don't care what genre you are playing, too loud is too loud... even when the patrons, club owners, sound guys, or band members don't realize it.
Yes, I'm an old fuddy duddy who's played all kinds of music in all kinds of venues at all kinds of volumes. I now suffer from tinnitus and urge everyone to be reasonable, unless you don't care about your hearing.
Thank you for your indulgence,
BassCliff