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Playing my first show tomorrow night

Enjoy it! Remember if you make a mistake MOST people wont notice it especially if it's original stuff. Also DONT over think what you are doing just do it and make it look like you are having fun! (which you should do anyway)

Oh and it goes to 11!
 
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Lots of great advice here already.

I played my first gig two weeks shy of my 55th birthday and was playing with a bunch of very experienced musicians. I felt like I was in WAY over my head, mostly because I was. :D What I figured out right away was to harness the nerves. Feel the energy they bring out in you rather than the fear and your playing will almost feel effortless. If you can focus on that, you'll play well and have a blast!

Just stay focused enough on the music rather than listening to the cool stuff your bandmates are doing. In the beginning I sometimes found myself listening to them and would realize I didn't know where we were in the song. :laugh: It didn't take long to realize the key was being IN the moment and creating it rather than going outside of the moment and observing/appreciating it.

You'll be fine! :bassist:
 
Alt punk/metal band and I'm completely terrified. Been practicing everyday for a few weeks. All original music so it's like you know... the crowd will love it or hate it I suppose and I'm soloing at the begining of two songs which is the scary part lol. Going with my squier VM PJ bass. Guess we'll answer the question of "can you gig with an affordable bass" and all that jazz. Wish me luck guys.

Check your tuning, remember you're there for a reason and not someone else.

My experience is once you make that first mistake that you think is earth-ending, than realize that the band played through it and the audience didn't notice, the jitters go away.

I rock my Squiers and Rumble 100 all the time, your attitude matters far more.

Rock it like you own it. Best of luck.
 
Alt punk/metal band and I'm completely terrified. Been practicing everyday for a few weeks. All original music so it's like you know... the crowd will love it or hate it I suppose and I'm soloing at the begining of two songs which is the scary part lol. Going with my squier VM PJ bass. Guess we'll answer the question of "can you gig with an affordable bass" and all that jazz. Wish me luck guys.

You’ll do fine..you might want to take a few minutes today to make sure you have your difficult transitions and licks down. Call it a quick review.

Keep in mind, this is a show for the benefit of the audience. Stay within yourself, what you’ve practiced. Try not to reinvent the wheel or win a Grammy the first night out.

Most of all, have fun. Best wishes.
 
I am by all accounts a terrible bassist (only been playing for like 6 months) and I've played a few gigs and didn't get tomatoes thrown at me.

You'll do great amigo. You're nervous which means you care, but you've been practicing so you know the stuff. After the first song you'll be in the groove. Let us know how it goes!

Yes, I totally forgot to say that - please check in afterward and tell us how it went.
 
dave64o has given you good advice about the nerves. Many of the things you anticipate being a problem, won't be. Things you could never imagine being a problem, well... surprise. Use the energy to propel you, not hold you back. Fear is not a good or bad thing. It's what one does with it.
 
Great! Have fun. I hope that this is just your beginning of a long “career” of playing out. As long as you enjoy it.

The stress of performing never fully goes away, and I have been playing out for almost 60 years (Yikes!). It eases overtime. You learn to live with it. It also helps to keep you on your toes. Music exists in time, the notes are fleeting. It is the overall performance that effects people and what they remember.

I was playing a run of Fiddler On the Roof a couple of years ago, and the first violinist, a very accomplished and experienced player, admitted to me that she was terrified every night even though she had played the show many, many times before. But she had the opening notes of the show all by herself playing a simple melody, one which everyone in the theater knew by heart and would instantly recognize a mistake. Of course, she nailed it every night. With original music and this being your first show, no one in the audience will know a priori what it is supposed to sound like. Even if you don’t play it exactly as you want to, they will just think, “Wow, what a cool arrangement!”

As others have said, nobody cares what equipment you play, except, perhaps, the nerdy bass player in the audience. And even then, he/she will likely be more interested in the music with a secondary interest in equipment.

Break a lick!
 
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