What attitude? lol
Seriously, it's not about attitude. It's about a desire to work with people with whom I can communicate. If you can read music, I can put my music in front of you and you can play it. If you can't read, then I have to either record it for you so you can learn it, or I have to write it in tab. For either of those options, I have to play your instrument for you!
That's fine in some rock band settings. But that mode of communication breaks down immediately if it's a pianist or horn player or drummer trying to communicate your part to you. Imagine if Doc Sevrinsen could write/transpose his charts for everyone else in the Tonight Show band, but had to go learn to play the bass in order to write tab so the bassist could play his part..... nope it's not about elitism, it's about becoming a minimally functional musician.
Seriously, it's not about attitude. It's about a desire to work with people with whom I can communicate. If you can read music, I can put my music in front of you and you can play it. If you can't read, then I have to either record it for you so you can learn it, or I have to write it in tab. For either of those options, I have to play your instrument for you!
That's fine in some rock band settings. But that mode of communication breaks down immediately if it's a pianist or horn player or drummer trying to communicate your part to you. Imagine if Doc Sevrinsen could write/transpose his charts for everyone else in the Tonight Show band, but had to go learn to play the bass in order to write tab so the bassist could play his part..... nope it's not about elitism, it's about becoming a minimally functional musician.
Your missing the obvious. People aren't attacking the skill they're attacking the attitude. You can be proud of your ability that's fine. But to be proud of having an elitist attitude isn't the same as being proud of being able to read music.
If you really think that being able to read music puts you in an elite then it's hardly a very difficult entry requirement. I can read, I wouldn't consider myself in an elite because of that, but you know, whatever floats your boat.