Renting is a different game. It's an odds game: will you recoup enough over time to overcome the inevitable repairs and still turn a profit? Most rental gear is sturdy but uninspiring for a lot of reasons, not the least to give the renter incentive to bring their own gear. I've never rented. I'd be curious to know if there are "repair" clauses in the agreements.
I co-host "jam nights" as a drummer. I've been out a few pairs of sticks and that's the cost of doing business. A broken snare drum head is the next most likely thing to happen. Cymbals are where things get expensive.
Guess what: I bring good but not great cymbals to those gigs. I'm getting enough money that I'm coming out ahead. I bring all of those sticks where I was trying a model out, one broke and the other didn't. A real potpourri of sticks that have accumulated over the years.
I also have the authority to say to any meat head basher that's just pummeling my drums, "hey thanks for coming out. You're done." That's why the bar has bouncers, to back me up. Usually it's the same old guys playing and I know whom I can trust. I'm there anyway.
All that said, I'd lend my bass rig to Dave Peg (or my best drums and cymbals to Dave Mattocks).
KO
I co-host "jam nights" as a drummer. I've been out a few pairs of sticks and that's the cost of doing business. A broken snare drum head is the next most likely thing to happen. Cymbals are where things get expensive.
Guess what: I bring good but not great cymbals to those gigs. I'm getting enough money that I'm coming out ahead. I bring all of those sticks where I was trying a model out, one broke and the other didn't. A real potpourri of sticks that have accumulated over the years.
I also have the authority to say to any meat head basher that's just pummeling my drums, "hey thanks for coming out. You're done." That's why the bar has bouncers, to back me up. Usually it's the same old guys playing and I know whom I can trust. I'm there anyway.
All that said, I'd lend my bass rig to Dave Peg (or my best drums and cymbals to Dave Mattocks).
KO
Does your guitarist know how much you have invested in your rig that he so gladly offered up for (free) use? Shame on him for doing this, and shame on him for giving you a hard time when you refused.
As for professionals travelling w/o gear or instruments, I guess it's not that uncommon. I was asked to rent my bass for a show by the company doing the sound/stage for some Disney pop artist's backing band. I didn't do it because I felt uncomfortable but they didn't give me a hard time about it...they ended up renting one from GC.
Also, one of my keyboardists that I gig w/ does a bunch of different "tribute band" shows and one involved him being in a Jethro Tull band when Dave Pegg (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Pegg )came to town with his Mandolin show. Dave did his gig he was touring for, and then did the Tull thing with this band afterward. That was the only time I lent my bass out....they already had a backline. I was scared, but it came back in one piece none the worse. Doubt I'll ever do it again though, even though it's only a 2005 MIA Fender Jazz fiver.