SUCCESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It works, I almost can't believe I did it right the first time around *pauses to see if bass magically falls from workbench.* Many thanks goes to LimeGuy who actually talked me through understanding the wiring diagram. He also convinced me to go Vol/Vol just to get things going. What a swell guy!!
So it took like 3 hours, and I've been noodling around on it for almost an hour; it's a marked improvement over the passive EMG-SSD pups and Tonepump Jr. preamp. I actually love the single coil tone I get from both pups, and the TonePump is more growly than ever. I've trimmed mine down to about 65% to see if the tone is more articulate like I've read in the thread. Anyways, thanks EVERYONE who helped me and offered tips. I'll have sound clips up soon....