Yeah I am one of those weirdos with long skinny spider fingers, so I enjoy wide nut widths on guitars and basses, why I tend to dig the strat necks. When at GC I love playing the tele with double bucks, but I get a little finger twisted at first from the tiny necks lol, though about a minute of playing I adjust. Yeah I can't decide if I want to go with those old school Fender pups, or not, as I do dig that tone a lot, but more traditional routes would make finding pickups easier. I wish I had the knowledge and balls to route bodies for pickups I want. You can make stuff pretty cheap the way you want, like a pbass with a nice neck pup, etc.
I got me some long fingers to so I feel your pain, if you ever want to torment yourself pickup a Ric guitar. They are the absolute most uncomfortable necks if your have big hands or long fingers. Unless your gonna stick to the stock WRHB's get a body with normal humbuckers, the WRHB's do not have many aftermarket choices and those that are out there are not cheap at all. And DIY is definitely the way to go if you can, I eventually had to start just diving in head first and I'm glad I did I've saved myself so much money.