father of fires
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I definitely wouldn't deny image is important to most people. Most auditions I've lost over the years, the guy who got it was thinner, better dressed and a mediocre player. When I waited tables I got less tips when I wore short sleeve shirts and my tattoos showed. I just think it's stupid and reinforces how much I don't understand the thought process of most people. I like EW's music, but I think it's hilarious that they're supposed to look "cool". I remember it used to be very typical on doom metal forums 10+ years ago that everyone from the UK trad doom metal scene made fun of the way they dressed (many of those people cringed that EW were even called "doom metal"). Which I think is just as stupid, honestly, but it just goes to show you how random the prevailing taste can shift. Depending on how popular a group in question is at the moment.
I get quite the opposite reaction. I'm quite the pessimist and I keep waiting for my bands to have a style intervention with me.
I'm actually quite surprised it has never happened. Despite not knowing what "cool" is, I have friends/band mates who are universally cool and yet they don't mind being around me.
I think self esteem plays in a big part in how one perceives image.
The only audition that I didn't get was when I was cocky as hell and came off like a jack ass. I deserved that. But...it could be possible that I didn't "fit in".

