Good luck, I've had zero luck getting anything going around here the past few months. Lots of auditions that didn't go anywhere or anything. And like, thats after showing up and learning some bands original stuff and all that, so idfk. Could it just because I suck? dunno.
I'm prob going try to find a jazz band or something if I can't dig up anything heavy soon.
Now dangit, you guys don't suck. It's hard to do a band, though. My last 2 (maybe 4 depending on your standards of what defines a "band" vs. "folks screwing around") bands were the doing of my drummer, who I met in an earlier (woah, so much earlier) band that got started when a friend and I spotted the same genius without a band on separate occasions and approached them to create a band (yeah, convoluted, but that's as close as I can get in a paragraph - and on preview: this motherscratcher is gonna be long).
Either way, my point is: The guy just creates good bands. He does the necessary work to figure it out. I don't really know how he does it other than he works every goddamn angle he can to create the band he wants. The surf rock band we were in was the result of him and the beating of going through all the people who will respond to a CL ad. He got it 3/4 of the way there before he contacted me, but everyone hated the bassist they had ended up with. He hadn't played with me in around a decade, but in desperation sent me a "Tell me you want to be the bass player in my surf rock band" message. I happily asked "When's practice?", because I wasn't doing anything, and he rocks as a drummer. The guitarist he got from CL was the best guitarist I've ever played with, and one of the nicest band members. He did however move back to California before our record returned from the plant. We played a few shows after that, but not many. So, I probably have half a run left. PM me your address if you want a bitchin' surf rock record. I may even get off my tuckus and send ya one for free! I swear it'll be a rare gem someday, we got played on WFMU!!!!

Seriously, I have a few boxes left, it's a good record, and I'm sick of lookin' at them. PM me if ya want one. Offer good as long as I'm alive and have the gumption to re-use the mailers I buy other people's records in. Warning: it is a weirdo 10-inch EP, but it' 33 rpm.
So, when that guitarist moved back to California, I got to see how my drummer actually operated when he formed a band. He had always formed good bands who eventually got booked at good clubs before they broke up. I had always just found the folks I knew who were interested, taught someone to play guitar or bass and found a drummer of some sort, and came up with whatever band sprung from that - almost competent, spectacularly crazy, or just plain bland.
He started with casting a specific net. He talked to a few guitarists before trying to bring a new one in. The guys he brought in were pretty well respected, but neither of us got along with them*, so he scratched the surf band at that point. That magic was gone without that guitarist anyway, and those guys weren't close to him. At that point he just contacted pretty much anyone he knew looking for people who were interested in "nasty, dark, rock". We probably went through at least 10 different folks being in the band while they figured out whether it was something they wanted to do. We sounded like we were going to be a cross between the Melvins, Crash Worship, and Little Richard at one point. I was stoked. But then a guitarist and a drummer left, other folks shifted around, and we eventually ended up a straight 4-piece rock band, with the standard rock load out of: bass, gits/vox, lead gits, and drums before we finally even came up with a name, much less a show. With that config and the guitarists not willing to detune it's hard to not voice it like a "rock band", even though we're an odd "rock band". So, I can play with as much drive as I like until I piss off 50% of the band, or it's too much for my tastes. I really use the drummer as a gauge. If he thinks it doesn't fit, I've probably gone too far. The guitarists can be guitarists and whine that they can't step on their fuzz or distortion without disappearing. Get a better distortion sound, then (and you know what...they do!)
Nah, my point isn't to encourage you to engage in watersports with your guitarists - I really am a caring, sensitive bass player, and listen to their concerns. Sometimes I adjust my EQ in accordance with their requests. Occasionally I shut the silly thing off or even roll the volume down. We work it out. My point is that the band started as a surf band (or as a noise/punk band if you want to go back decades to my first "good" band with this drummer), but it was a lot of work and changing of expectations to get it to the sloppy, recreational (nowhere near breaking even) but somehow somewhat popular state it's in now. It's a shitload of fun, and as long as I can sell three guys on a song**, it's in the set.
*And yeah, he did the "dirty work" of telling them no, we're still looking. He's a LOT better at that than I. I'm somewhere in the neighborhood of "Welcome to Dumpsville: Population You". The guy's a great drummer, and he knows how to be polite, and firm. This footnote is sounding a lot dirtier than I intended. Ok, I'll try to save it with this: Drummers are weird offshoots of humanity in the same way that philosophy majors are weird offshoots of humanity. This drummer was once a philosophy major, and that makes him well suited for his job. Ok, I'll stop rambling.
**Yeah, I've got lots of written and half written songs I'll never sell them on, but I have a habit of writing straight-up country songs that I know I'm not really going to sell them on, and straight up noise, or de-tuned metal riffs. Really gotta try to start a side project suitable for any of those, but as I said, bands are hard.
TL;DR: Try to be nice, step on your fuzz, try to play with as many folks as you can, and show up to practice on time. Bring weed, if appropriate. Oh, and I'm giving away 10" of black surf rock vinyl. First come, first serve.