Yeah. That's the thing. Sure, maybe over my entire lifespan I would pay less if I bought a house. But buying requires me to save up for a down payment, and let's just face facts. I'm never going to get there. That's madness.
Also, in my family, we don't tend to buy and resell. That's just not our mindset. Things are bought to keep. Hence, even people in the older generation didn't buy houses until they were sure they found somewhere they wanted to live for the rest of their lives. I suppose we're old fashioned that way.
Myself, I'm not going to be able to afford that down payment. Not here, not ever. And before anyone says "just move," well, that's not really a possibility for me right now, for a number of reasons. Even if it was, why would I want to uproot myself, go somewhere else, and then tie myself to some place I didn't want to live in by buying a house there?
Yeah... college costs aren't the same everywhere. Here in CA, where the government has gutted higher education at every opportunity, because we decided that lower taxes were more important a few decades ago, it's very expensive. Of the places I applied to, I got into UCSC and Humboldt State. UCSC was closer, so I went with that. I'm not catastrophically in debt like some of my friends who owe $30,000, but by taking five years instead of the four I was lucky that my parents had saved up for, I got myself somewhat into debt. Because I believed the "oh, go to college, and you'll get a good job, especially if you go to a good school" stuff fed to me as a high schooler, that turned out to be a couple decades out of date. Yeah, I was young and naive. Oh well.
What is, of course, most infuriating to me, is that back when my grandparents and even when my parents went to the UC, it was free. Well, besides housing and textbooks. Because the intent was that it should actually be public.