I never really got in any serious fights when I was a kid either. I also didn't act like an *******, wreck people's stuff or generally be a dick. I pretty much avoided people that I didn't like. Another factor was the fact that people in junior high and high school were legit afraid of me - I guess walking around looking pissed off and wearing death metal t-shirts will do that. Senior year I mellowed out and made a lot more friends, everyone said that they couldn't believe that i was a just a nice, open-minded dude.