The type of music is the killer, and people that will do it and do it well.
+1. With the super elitist punk scene here, I was surprised to learn that there were even 20 punk bands in this town. Is the stoner crowd nicer and more inviting because we are stoned? Why are people jerks? When I was trying to find a punk band to play with, every single person I met was a flake. Even people that were just moving here. One guy wanted to start a crust band, just moved here from Oregon. I text him, call him, then he drops off the face of the earth. Next guy was a two piece band that wanted to add bass. Some weird punk/electronic/whatever. Got them on the phone, tried to work out a time, then he never called back, ever. Not even to say the spot was filled. Next I joined a band where the guitarist was moving in a month. After I expressed interest in finding another guitar player and the other band members weren't having it. They wanted a bass player until that guy moved away (Stupid idea). Next I met a guy that wanted to start some stoner project. His ad seemed normal, listed Melvins as reference. He talked about having job/family/etc, so I'm thinking cool, me too. Then I call him and he acts like I'm stuck up because I can't jam 3 nights a week. He's like well never mind then. Then he all curses me out by text message after I asked him why we couldn't just jam one night a week as I had a family and all that too. People are ***holes. I just can't seem to meet the right people around here. The few cool people I have met, don't play anything so it's been really boring for me musically for the last 7 years.