DiabolusInMusic
Functionless Art is Merely Tolerated Vandalism
Like I said before, I don't have the emails between both parties involved so I don't know what was agreed upon.
For the sake of conversation with your quote, say I buy something from you and you tell me that it is going to cost 20- to ship it. I have 2 choices:
1) I can pay the 20- shipping.
2) I can go on a long rant about how Amazon offers free shipping and that you are trying to get rich by padding the price of the shipping costs and threaten to ruin your reputation because of I have no idea how you arrived at that number.
If I decided to go with number 1 and pay the 20- shipping. I thought that was a fair amount so I would be in the wrong if switched gears and went to number 2 because the shipping label did not show 20-.
If I decided to go with number 2, chances are that would be considered a hero for standing up to a bully because I was the first to get my story out there and accumulated an angry mob to shoot down any logic and reason.
I don't think we're on the same page here. I was discussing in general, not in relation to the OP. The cost of shipping has little to do with the OP getting hosed. Also, in your hypothetical situation the buyer is agreeing to the shipping cost of $20, that is not getting "the item plus shipping". What I am saying is that when a seller says "cost of item + shipping" that does not mean "cost of item + my cost to get a box, pack it up, send it out as well as the cost of material." You know the item has to be shipped so why act inconvenienced by somebody buying your item? For the record, when people buy items off of me I always incorporate shipping into the total cost. I know I have to ship them item so, in my mind, it just makes more sense and it simplifies things.
