did you talk to her yet?
Haven't seen her yet.
I've never done this,all my relationships started when I knew the chicks and developed from there.I'm a confident guy,its just I never did anything like this before and it feels weird.
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The chick you don't know with no common friends algorithm
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Haven't seen her yet.
I've never done this,all my relationships started when I knew the chicks and developed from there.I'm a confident guy,its just I never did anything like this before and it feels weird.
If you are single, and AREN'T getting rejected REGULARLY then you are either:
1) Not trying w/ enough chicks
2) Not trying w/ hot enough chicks
3) Combination of the above
There is an old King of the Hill episode where Boomhower (not really sure how to spell his name) is trying to take young Bobby under his wing and show him how to score w/ chicks. Fast forward to the shoe department of a store where Boomhower hits on EVERY chick there. Most turn him down, then he scores.
Bobby says: "So you just hit on chicks until one says yes?"
Boomhower: "Dang-ol-you betcha"
Sure it still sucks to get rejected, but whatever....
1) Not trying w/ enough chicks
2) Not trying w/ hot enough chicks
3) Combination of the above
There is an old King of the Hill episode where Boomhower (not really sure how to spell his name) is trying to take young Bobby under his wing and show him how to score w/ chicks. Fast forward to the shoe department of a store where Boomhower hits on EVERY chick there. Most turn him down, then he scores.
Bobby says: "So you just hit on chicks until one says yes?"
Boomhower: "Dang-ol-you betcha"
Sure it still sucks to get rejected, but whatever....
just walk up to her and talk to her, hmmm on second thoughts roll in a Ferrari or something that will double your chances
Is there supposed to be punctuation, or are you suggesting that he goes to her dad to tell him "I'd like to tap your daughter." ?
Some day, you'll realize just how good this advice is. Probably not any time soon, but some day.
Remember this - Confidence dude, confidence. It's more important than whichever method you choose.
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You're in Turkey. Is it considered rude there to approach a girl you don't know?
If so, go through her friend.
If not... try the old "Your father must have been a thief... he stole the stars and put them in your eyes"
If so, go through her friend.
If not... try the old "Your father must have been a thief... he stole the stars and put them in your eyes"
I have no problem with that,my confidence level sometimes makes me look like an a-hole.
You're in Turkey. Is it considered rude there to approach a girl you don't know?
If so, go through her friend.
If not... try the old "Your father must have been a thief... he stole the stars and put them in your eyes"
Ofcourse its not considered rude.Also,I love that sentence.
I've never done this,all my relationships started when I knew the chicks and developed from there.I'm a confident guy,its just I never did anything like this before and it feels weird.
There you go. You don't know her, so go introduce yourself and get to know her.
Yep. If you limit yourself to the girls you know, you're going to run out of options eventually. Go meet someone new. If it doesn't work out with her, you might just meet someone else along the way.
If you don't talk to the girl within 6 seconds of making eye contact, you've waited too long.
I seriously reccomend a book named, "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I'm not saying you should be a player, but it certainly is an immense help in learning to communicate with women in a way that makes them attracted to you.
Its an incredible resource, and sounds like it meets your situation exactly.
I seriously reccomend a book named, "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I'm not saying you should be a player, but it certainly is an immense help in learning to communicate with women in a way that makes them attracted to you.
Its an incredible resource, and sounds like it meets your situation exactly.
As a "project" when I was in college and gigging a lot, during a gig I once made it a point on a break to go into the audience on the first break and make a list of the 20 obviously unaccompanied females in the club that I found attractive, and a mental list of the most attractive to me in order from most to least.
The second break, I went to the #1 girl on the list and asked point blank if she wished to "go home with me" tonight.
Now, I wasn't crude, nor was I obtuse - it was very clear what I was asking, but not crass or rude, just "direct" and polite as possible under the circumstances.
#1 said no, thanks, but was not offended...
I won't go in order, mainly because I cannot remember all of the exact details, but I can remember quite well the "breakdown" from there forward:
Of the 20 that I spoke to -
11 replied no without being offended
2 replied NO and were offended (1 actually tried to strike me!
)AND SEVEN SAID YES! (For the "historical record", this was the mid-80's, so it was neither a particularly "loose" time, nor a particularly "uptight" time)
Now, the odds here are not incredible, but there is a lesson, for single guys. Shoot high, but never be shot down.
...oh, and yeah, I did take one "home", I'm thinking it was the 3rd or 4th girl I spoke to. That night...other nights other "numbers"...
