You absolutely can learn to use a pick Jeff - trust me, it will give open up a whole new world of articulation and tone for you. (and it's fun!) I dabbled with picks from the beginning - I even used felt and rubber picks. But I stuck with finger-style until joining Bond Girl. I simply started playing with a pic every day and now I am super comfortable and dexterous playing with one. I developed a light touch, I never drop a pick and I can palm it and play finger-style within the same song. (I do this on Skyfall) Just work it in to your daily playing, a little at a time.
I keep trying, then i just throw in the towel.
But i'll keep at it.
