Yeah, unfortunately most Schools don't really cover office politics and how to thrive or even survive in that environment. And as a general rule, many Engineers are a bit book heavy and personal interaction light which makes the entire social environment a bit of a challenge for some of them. You strike me as a very social person with the rare ability to humanize engineering solutions while having little tolerance for petty hierarchy games. Very admirable, those were some of my best engineers and group leaders, but I always had to carefully pair them with a handler (one up manager or strong admin assistant) as a politics buffer for their own career protection.I was a process engineer for a couple years. For a guy with no advanced schooling... I found the actual job itself, not to be as difficult as I expected. I actually enjoyed it for the most part. I had a rather unorthodox approach. I would take the existing drawings, and customer requirements, lay out a general foundation, then watch and consult with the people out on the line that actually performed the work, and dial it in to minimize waste & maximize efficiency. Folks on the lines loved it! I had people requesting me as their PE. It seems that most engineers have a fairly healthy ego, and believe that their way is the best way, the right way, and the only way. For the most part... it seems like they don't wanna leave their desks too. I did well at engineering processes... not so well at office politics...
If I woulda known about all that... I probly woulda put an expiration date on the job application