Not to sound like the Grinch myself, I'd like to say that the adults in our circle of family and friends decided long ago that we have enough and that we would spare one another from that pressure of the Holidays. We give the kids in the family, envelopes with cash which I know it's hard to believe, but they absolutely love. As for we adults, we bring wine, champagne, gift boxes of seasonal snacks and pot luck dishes when we visit each other and dinner is involved. So much better for all involved, IMO.
...but if anyone wants to buy me a Thunderbird, we can bend the rules!![]()
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but after that... I'm not sure... 

