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Thanks much Dagrev. There are many difficult decisions when it becomes clear a loved one is not able to live on their own any longer. In this case my MIL has had a couple of falls, and is now convalescing at my wife's sister's place in Missouri. The house in Oregon has been sitting unoccupied for a bit, and it has become clear she is not going to be able to live there again, even with in home care. I suspect we will be spending a fair amount of time in Oregon this summer finding a good assisted living place and cleaning out and selling the home. It has caused me to reexamine my own affairs and just how much stuff I have accumulated.
I am looking forward to the drive, between covid and working from home, just doing a bit of traveling will be a welcome change.

I hope you get it all figured out without too much trouble even though I'm certain there will be challenges. Try to handle these matters with grace and you'll have no regrets in the end.

I totally understand the "reexamining my own affairs" comment. Once retirement from work has come, this will be a priority to devest from as many worldly possessions as possible. Condo living will help that as we already speak of downsizing once we're empty nested.
 
I hope you get it all figured out without too much trouble even though I'm certain there will be challenges. Try to handle these matters with grace and you'll have no regrets in the end.

I totally understand the "reexamining my own affairs" comment. Once retirement from work has come, this will be a priority to devest from as many worldly possessions as possible. Condo living will help that as we already speak of downsizing once we're empty nested.
Thanks much Larry, I appreciate your comments. Have a great weekend.
 
Thanks much Dagrev. There are many difficult decisions when it becomes clear a loved one is not able to live on their own any longer. In this case my MIL has had a couple of falls, and is now convalescing at my wife's sister's place in Missouri. The house in Oregon has been sitting unoccupied for a bit, and it has become clear she is not going to be able to live there again, even with in home care. I suspect we will be spending a fair amount of time in Oregon this summer finding a good assisted living place and cleaning out and selling the home. It has caused me to reexamine my own affairs and just how much stuff I have accumulated.
I am looking forward to the drive, between covid and working from home, just doing a bit of traveling will be a welcome change.

We are beginning to travel down this road as well. My M-I-L has an appointment for testing with Banner Alzheimer's Institute on Tuesday. We think this is the beginning of the end of living on her own. She refuses to accept that anything is truly wrong with her because she doesn't remember the bad days and on those bad days the delusions can be extreme. Our hope is that once she is diagnosed, we can begin the process of moving her to a facility. It is clear that she will need memory care very soon, even though she doesn't think there are memory issues. or that the issues aren't severe. We want her to be able to make decisions on her care and what facility she ends up in while she still can. It is difficult watching this happen as you slowly lose the person you knew.
 
We are beginning to travel down this road as well. My M-I-L has an appointment for testing with Banner Alzheimer's Institute on Tuesday. We think this is the beginning of the end of living on her own. She refuses to accept that anything is truly wrong with her because she doesn't remember the bad days and on those bad days the delusions can be extreme. Our hope is that once she is diagnosed, we can begin the process of moving her to a facility. It is clear that she will need memory care very soon, even though she doesn't think there are memory issues. or that the issues aren't severe. We want her to be able to make decisions on her care and what facility she ends up in while she still can. It is difficult watching this happen as you slowly lose the person you knew.
Got the same going with the MiL who’s 79, pretty harsh. they are proposing a modern type of shock treatment that apparently helps with the depression but we are not sure. seems like it all started overnight. feel for you Man.
 
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We are beginning to travel down this road as well. My M-I-L has an appointment for testing with Banner Alzheimer's Institute on Tuesday. We think this is the beginning of the end of living on her own. She refuses to accept that anything is truly wrong with her because she doesn't remember the bad days and on those bad days the delusions can be extreme. Our hope is that once she is diagnosed, we can begin the process of moving her to a facility. It is clear that she will need memory care very soon, even though she doesn't think there are memory issues. or that the issues aren't severe. We want her to be able to make decisions on her care and what facility she ends up in while she still can. It is difficult watching this happen as you slowly lose the person you knew.

Sorry to hear this, Andy. I know you and Patti will do all you can to help her mom. Prayers for all involved.

Got the same going with the MiL who’s 79, pretty harsh. they are proposing a modern type of shock treatment that apparently helps with the depression but we are not sure. seems like it all started overnight. feel for you Caro.

Mi dispiace molto. Preghero' per Lei e la tua famiglia.

Speaking of fixer-uppers, there's a silver Epiphone Tbird for sale locally. It has EMGs installed and a Supertone bridge, plus case for $250. Original parts included. Worth it? Is this a short scale?

A deal. Jump on it!
 
Red shows up ..Hopefully I can load some video to YouTube in the near future..It was a great post pandemic gig..
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Good morning Thunderbird loving sisters and brothers, and welcome to the weekend. I am taking my wife to the Portland area once again as she continues down the eldercare/what to do with mom's house and most possessions road. A formidable task to be certain. I had that experience 15 years ago with my dad and the home place in Walla Walla. My wife is having a bit of an issue finding a new home for mom's old, but much loved and well cared for baby grand. An unexpected surprise in these days of covid and whatnot. She is hoping to donate it to a worthwhile organization that perhaps works with youth. Anyway, I may be back for suggestions depending on how this trip goes. Have a great day everyone.
You have my sympathies. I am currently going through something similar; my mum is dying of cancer. Back in January, we went through all the documents - power of attorneys, will, funeral arrangements, etc. Been working on long term care/palliative care for when she can no longer look after herself. Also discussed how much treatment she wants. Yesterday we discussed the fact that she needs to make a list of people we should call. It is difficult to discuss someone's death with them. And the terrible thing is that we don't know when - next week, next month, next year...

As for the piano, from what I have seen, acoustic pianos have a negative value. There are always ads offering free pianos to anyone who wants to pick it up.

My brother bought a house a couple of years ago. Left behind was an upright piano. The lawyer asked for a list of deficiencies (missing fixtures, appliances not working etc.); I told him to get an estimate for disposal of the piano and submit it. Worst of it is that middle C and the B beside it are out of tune.
 
Speaking of fixer-uppers, there's a silver Epiphone Tbird for sale locally. It has EMGs installed and a Supertone bridge, plus case for $250. Original parts included. Worth it? Is this a short scale?

!!! BUY IT!
 
Worth it and it is not a short scale.
What he said. And more. Unless the neck is a catastrophe, it’s a steel. Still a deal even if it needs a new neck. That would likely be a Limited Edition Custom Shop in TV Silver unless it’s a Silverburst. Great basses. Ask about where the original pickups are; they’re actually quite good. I’d be out the door by now. It’s 34 scale.
 
Speaking of fixer-uppers, there's a silver Epiphone Tbird for sale locally. It has EMGs installed and a Supertone bridge, plus case for $250. Original parts included. Worth it? Is this a short scale?

I haven't seen the bass, but judging by what you're saying, it seems like a really nice deal.
 
You have my sympathies. I am currently going through something similar; my mum is dying of cancer. Back in January, we went through all the documents - power of attorneys, will, funeral arrangements, etc. Been working on long term care/palliative care for when she can no longer look after herself. Also discussed how much treatment she wants. Yesterday we discussed the fact that she needs to make a list of people we should call. It is difficult to discuss someone's death with them. And the terrible thing is that we don't know when - next week, next month, next year...

So sorry to hear about your mum. Cancer is relentless... prayers to all involved.

As for the piano, from what I have seen, acoustic pianos have a negative value. There are always ads offering free pianos to anyone who wants to pick it up.

True here in Michigan as well. I'm surprised piano dealers can remain in business, TBH.

My brother bought a house a couple of years ago. Left behind was an upright piano. The lawyer asked for a list of deficiencies (missing fixtures, appliances not working etc.); I told him to get an estimate for disposal of the piano and submit it. Worst of it is that middle C and the B beside it are out of tune.

When my brother's MIL was moved to an eldercare facility, she has since passed, the family was begging everyone and anyone to take her beautiful piano. No one did. Sad really... it was her beloved piano that she played worship music on and no one would/could take it.
 
Did my first gig on the ‘02 Gibson ‘Bird with Chromes. Gotta say, I like Cobalts a bit more, but they were decent
Same here. I find the Cobalts to be as bright or dark as I need and easy to dial in grit and grind if needed. With Chromes I find it harder to dial out the top end when I want to go dark and I don't find them as gritty or grindy as Cobalts either. They are an interesting look, kind of a flat grey, almost look like they're coated. All in all, Chromes aren't my cup of tea. Not bad, just not as good as other options.
 
Not that I need another TBird, but I'm very curious about the difference in sound between the Greco II which I have and a Greco IV. So long story short, I have a Greco IV on order. Will be able to A/B the two and report back in a couple of weeks. There's a chance I might only keep the one that speaks to me the most, if so there might be a bird floating around looking for a new home.