poopie a brick, there is a high hat there. Its so so so low in the mix, you breath and you miss it. I am a heavy breather, lol.
I agree, its a rather trivial matter to get all hung up about.
So as a bass player i have conditioned my brain to follow the bass drum. What is this idea about following the high hat? Especially if you cant hear the damn thing.
My good friend( singer/lead guitar) used to have a saying,"there's nothing more fragile/sensitive than a musicians ego!" maybe he's been working on his timing or read an article on his idol & said "timing is the most important thing a drummer does,or it important to keep your hi hats in time". long ago, I got schooled by a busy drummer, he scolded me "it's important to keep track of time all the time(as a rhythm section!). I think I mentioned It was hard to know where beat 1 was with his "busy" playing. I knew I hit a nerve, when he went on a long rant! give him time, let him know you were mistaken, even if you know your right, if you think you want to work with him in the future. I once destroyed a relationship with a dingus drummer, by touching a sensitive subject too much! but I hated him, and didnt care if I ever played with him again! no loss. but I got a rep of being a perfectionist, amongst our small circle.
.....what a flustercluck!