I wish. I often have to dictate time to my drummer so the rest of the band will keep up. He will blame me for letting the band drag tempos down.Several points here.
1. Whether side stick or hi hat is the best choice is stylistic and what you feel sounds better. If both are on the track there is probably a reason they both are. Nothing says when you play it you can't do or the other, but that's a stylistic issue and not 'keeping time issue'.
2. There is a post on this page that somehow suggests Whitney had a bunch of pick up bands and drummer of the week? Behave. Even if this were the case, and it isn't, Whitneys band would have always have been some heavy hitters. The point about each drummer interpreting it slightly differently is valid, and probably was the over all point but it was framed in a very poor way.
3. Trust whoever is playing their instrument is able to pick up details you initially miss. I've trusted guitar players when I've not heard parts on records, most of the time they are correct. Only once or twice have they been totally wrong but you'll hear things in the bass that they won't and vice versa. Accept it.
4. If you need to rely on any musician to keep time for you then you have some serious work to do on your playing. It's not the drummers job to keep time, it's everyones job. Do your job.
I believe it's the old 'disagreement over the amount of swing'. If the lead isn't pushing the beat enough then drummy unconciously puts the beat back a bit so its 'swinging' and then if I come onto his beat it's now slower.
It's bloody tiring playing ahead of beats 2 and 3 and sometimes even 4 so the next bar has a chance to start on time, rinse and repeat.
