Hahaha, this one's funny. If people are enjoying it, it's because it works in the mix. You can hear it, but it doesnt pierce, or you can feel it, but it doesnt mask the rest of the band, or it fills in something that your band is missing (octaver/distortion pedals/etc). If people aren't liking your tone, then your tone sucks. Because nobody but bass players care what a bass sounds like. Most people think like this, if you can hear the bass clearly, then you're too loud. If people aren't digging it, it's because the bass sounds bad. Regardless of anything "you" may like. Music is 100%, pure, plain, and simple...entertainment. If you dont care what other people think sounds good, then you should just stick to one man bedroom studio music with 12 plays on youtube from your facebook friends.
"Who cares what other people think?" "...Your tastes"
That's pretty good dude.