I've had a couple of older Peavey basses with the brass truss rod nut that were very hard to adjust. I removed the nut (before trying to set the relief) and put a small amount of grease on the treads and the base of the nut. Then the truss rod adjusted easily. The problem comes in when it is very hard to turn the nut and you just keep trying instead of removing and lubing the nut.
So sorry for your trouble and I hope you get it resolved.
So sorry for your trouble and I hope you get it resolved.