Talking about the old band The Nices guitarist,
Davy O'List a cantankerous and grumpy guitarist in the young days, seemed to always be the one who "missed out" on big scheme of things. Just "missed" it. Partly due to his own adamant "views" of things.
He subbed for Syd Barret in
Pink Floyd, offered, but said no thanks, subbed for Mick Abrahams in
Jethro Tull, but said no thanks, and botched himself out of
Roxy Music just prior they got signed and started to work on their first album.
Phil Manzanera - Wikipedia
"Although the group were impressed with his abilities, Manzanera lost out to David O'List, former guitarist with UK prog rock combo The Nice, although Roxy did offer him work as their roadie. However a few months later O'List quit the band abruptly after an onstage altercation with drummer Paul Thompson, during the band's audition for David Enthoven of [Invalid or Expired Link Removed].Manzanera was invited to the next rehearsal on the pretext of becoming their sound mixer but was asked to stand in on guitar. Unbeknownst to the rest of the group, he had secretly learned their entire repertoire and as a result he was immediately asked to become O'List's permanent replacement, joining on 14 February 1972."
WHAT A LOSER!