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What did you learn today?

I learned (yesterday; does it still count?) that being a jerk only in my head is still being a jerk. If I keep my expression and mannerisms even-keel so everybody thinks I'm nice, really I've just elevated jerk-ness to passive aggressive jerk-ness.

I don't do this crap very often anymore, so whenever I indulge it I'm sorry quickly.
What is the sound of one jerk jerking? If a jerk jerks in the jerk forest and nobody sees it, does he make a jerk?

I think you’re ok with being a jerk in your head. Don’t beat yourself up.
 
I learned (yesterday; does it still count?) that being a jerk only in my head is still being a jerk. If I keep my expression and mannerisms even-keel so everybody thinks I'm nice, really I've just elevated jerk-ness to passive aggressive jerk-ness.

I don't do this crap very often anymore, so whenever I indulge it I'm sorry quickly.
I woke up this morning hoping to be offended by some jerk so I could show some righteous indignation. Reading that you were a jerk in your head did nothing to help me in my quest, yes, it has now become a quest. I guess I shall have to search for an offensive soap commercial, or, possibly, venture out into the real world in search of a jerk. In my last foray into the untamed vastness of this town, I was in such a great mood that everyone I encountered seemed to be in a good mood and no jerks were to be found.
 
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I woke up this morning hoping to be offended by some jerk so I could show some righteous indignation. Reading that you were a jerk in your head did nothing to help me in my quest, yes, it has now become a quest. I guess I shall have to search for an offensive soap commercial, or, possibly, venture out into the real world in search of a jerk. In my last foray into the untamed vastness of this town, I was in such a great mood that everyone I encountered seemed to be in a good mood and no jerks were to be found.


Darn everyone to heck!
 
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I learned (yesterday; does it still count?) that being a jerk only in my head is still being a jerk. If I keep my expression and mannerisms even-keel so everybody thinks I'm nice, really I've just elevated jerk-ness to passive aggressive jerk-ness.

I don't do this crap very often anymore, so whenever I indulge it I'm sorry quickly.

“We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their action.”

Seems kind of hypocritical if you ask me.
 
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I learned I'm still apparently quite sore about my management team destroying my career a few years back. (Yeah, I had a hand in it too, but the way things were going, it was either this or an early death by stroke or heart attack, so guess I'll take this.) Just trying to ride it out until 65 now, not sure I'll be able to put up with the :poop: that long though (7 more years sigh).
 
“We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their action.”

Seems kind of hypocritical if you ask me.

Which is part of the reason why I was not happy with myself for being a jerk, even in my head. Yeah, the person who I was outwardly smiling at had made my life far more difficult than it needed to be. I was peeved at his lack of response to email communication, inability to XYZ, lack of foresight to ABC, lateness... and guess what, I don't know what went on in his life that morning. Maybe his water heater blew up, or his gerbil died, or he left his coffee mug on the top of his car, or got yogurt on his freshly-pressed shirt.

In the windup, guess how much of it matters. Zip.


Are you Phil, the Prince of Insufficient Light?

Me and my spork!


It is almost Christmas. :bored:

Do. Not.

Even if Costco has been selling wrapping paper since August, it is not okay for you to talk about this yet. Bah humbug.
 
My old '80s TEAC cassette tapes, which I used to record my 4-track sessions, sound every bit as good as they did back then. But I can hear signs of degradation with my old Maxell 4-track tapes, which are not quite as old as the TEACs. I only started buying Maxells because I couldn't keep finding TEACs, and that was long before you could order anything you want on the internet. They were a boutique kind of tape, and unused, sealed ones go for insane prices today.

There really is a quality difference in cassette tapes. Those TEACs are for real.
 
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My old '80s TEAC cassette tapes, which I used to record my 4-track sessions, sound every bit as good as they did back then. But I can hear signs of degradation with my old Maxell 4-track tapes, which are not quite as old as the TEACs. I only started buying Maxells because I couldn't keep finding TEACs, and that was long before you could order anything you want on the internet. They were a boutique kind of tape, and unused, sealed ones go for insane prices today.

There really is a quality difference in cassette tapes. Those TEACs are for real.


Ok somehow I thought you were in your 30s. I've now changed my mind.
 
Bah humbug.
"Bah, Humbug - It's not just for Christmas anymore!"
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Do. Not.

Even if Costco has been selling wrapping paper since August, it is not okay for you to talk about this yet. Bah humbug.
Darn right!

Do not have Santa on the next aisle from zombies, and in some places they are sharing the aisle. :banghead:
Wait until the zombies have left the building and we are about to start The Great Turkey Roundup. Then Santa can come to town. :meh:
 

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