This was my gig last night. The audience seemed pretty into it as far as I could tell...View attachment 5126872
I thought you had joined the Grateful Dead when I saw a similar pic on Faceplant.
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This was my gig last night. The audience seemed pretty into it as far as I could tell...View attachment 5126872
Yeah, I'm a bit of an adrenaline addict and the performance aspect is an important part of what motivates me. I'll do a wallpaper gig if the money is right and the others want to do it, but I won't be expecting a big adrenaline hit from that show. I'd much rather be playing to a large and appreciative group of listeners and dancers, though.I'd lose interest in just wallpaper music..either playing or listening.
I agree, but also - there's a lot of pretty good stuff on our phones, such as this forum. I hate how much time I spend looking at screens and am always looking for analog experiences, but I've also learned a lot here and elsewhere.
That's great to hear. Not every gig is a stellar gig, but there are still people out there who appreciate what we do.OP here. We had a great show Friday night. BL pulled his Springsteen move and we played 3 hours straight nonstop high energy music.
I guarantee we wouldn't have done that without a high energy crowd giving it right back to us.
Noose is back in the lockbox.
And we just had our 4 year anniversary TODAY as a solid working trio.
I went to see a friend playing a tribute set at a small club Saturday. I had a couple beers and chatted with my wife and friends for a bit and it hit me, there’s a kit drummer, 2 electric guitarists, a keyboard player, a bass player, and a keys/percussion player, all amplified and all mixed in FoH and there’s a tall row of wedges and fills. And I’m 30’ off the stage and I can speak to my wife in a conversational “inside voice”.
So “what’s wrong with 2023 audiences” is that live bands with good quality rigs and backed by solid PA are performing so as not to disrupt table talk. It becomes “live” background music when it’s not loud enough. I was listening and attentive and listening and of course I appreciate that it didn’t leave my ears shattered. But it also was about as comparatively quiet as the music in a restaurant.
Point is, turn up. Rock the house and the house will rock with you.
Or blend in. But if you choose to blend in you cede your right to comment on the audience chatting or looking at their phones because when the band started it didn’t get any louder than the background music.
27510970[/URL], member: 329278"]Update. We got a communique from the matriarch of the Leukemia survivor (her mother) that kinda apologized..."wow last night was so great! We were upstairs at the second level talking about how good you guys were! It was so hard to move around or interact. We can't wait to see you at your other engagements!"
Agree with this. Lots of club owners don't get this either. There are some I have encountered that get all paranoid about the volume level because they think it will drive away the crowd, but they have the wrong idea. They are worried about driving away the 20 people that are sitting on their hands at the tables talking and looking at their iphones but they are in reality driving away the folks that want to come in and have a good time and party. That's what sells drinks owners out there! We had a gig where there were folks drinking and up dancing and having a great time. During a break the owner tells us a couple at a table said it was too loud and they could hear themselves talk and we need to take the level down a bit. I couldn't believe it. Well out BL is paranoid and we brought it down. Guess what happened to all the fun partying folks. They dwindled. They want a live band, but they really do not want a live band and they listen to the wrong customers.
Now, I understand there is too loud for a club. I have seen that. I'm not talking about going there, but what a lot of these customers and owners deem too loud is not too loud at all for a live band.
They are worried about driving away the 20 people that are sitting on their hands at the tables talking and looking at their iphones but they are in reality driving away the folks that want to come in and have a good time and party.

In that case I would have suggested to the partiers that they go to the manager and complain to him that you were being shut down.Yep. Several years ago in another band we got shut down and asked to leave. Turns out a few regulars at the bar complained, then as we were tearing down the partyers wanted to know why we were leaving. They weren't happy but I guess the bar favored their regular resident drunks![]()
Yeah, this reeks of squeaky wheel syndrome and I've seen it a lot. You can have a room full of happy dancers but if one person complains or has their fingers in their ears, the venue will call you out. I've learned to try my best not to work for people like that.In that case I would have suggested to the partiers that they go to the manager and complain to him that you were being shut down.
Add to that the probability that the people having a good time are drinking the bar dry, while the mopey regulars are nursing theirs.Yeah, this reeks of squeaky wheel syndrome and I've seen it a lot. You can have a room full of happy dancers but if one person complains or has their fingers in their ears, the venue will call you out. I've learned to try my best not to work for people like that.
And the owner knows all the barflies by name, and worries incessantly that "Maude and dopey bill won't come back oh noes!"Add to that the probability that the people having a good time are drinking the bar dry, while the mopey regulars are nursing theirs.
They don't wanna run off their breakfast crowd.Add to that the probability that the people having a good time are drinking the bar dry, while the mopey regulars are nursing theirs.
Its like when the restaurant/bar sit the family with a baby or senior citizens at a table right next to the bandstand, C'Mon man!Yeah, this reeks of squeaky wheel syndrome and I've seen it a lot. You can have a room full of happy dancers but if one person complains or has their fingers in their ears, the venue will call you out. I've learned to try my best not to work for people like that.