Considering the ages of some folks I play for, I guess fewer people could an issue.I can't wait to find out what's wrong with 2024 audiences!
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Considering the ages of some folks I play for, I guess fewer people could an issue.I can't wait to find out what's wrong with 2024 audiences!
Wow. So what do you think of the nursing home gig circuit? I think it's my next step...Considering the ages of some folks I play for, I guess fewer people could an issue.
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I'm playing a show tomorrow night which is odd in my world. Then they do a duo show without me. Then it's live on Saturday. Then church choir. Busy azz weekend coming up!That's not a truly representative group, but it was a fun little gazebo gig, something to do on a Monday.![]()
Ironically, I was waiting in line for 25 years to play in this room. Nothing to blame - they do outstanding business and crowd is walking in. Yesterday, I made my $3 in tips ($5 for a request.. at the end of the night we got a check, so I don't rely on these). Folks are just walking by. My mate initiated a nice conversation and I was just listening, trying to figure out how to please a person musically with certain song/style.Yep. I’m not playing this room.
These photos are from my last two gigs, a week apart from each other. One is a summer concert series we play once a year where 2-4 thousand people show up (we had close to 4,000 this year). The other is a monthly 3-hour gig we do at an outdoor brewery, every first Friday, where 200-300 people usually show up. View attachment 5159468 View attachment 5159469
I’m having no problems with attentive audiences who tip well. It’s a brass band, no vocals. 9 band members, we have a $10 suggested tip protocol, but almost always pull in substantially more than that. (Earning $200 per person is pretty much a guaranteed minimum). We have a big tip jar, and we have QR codes posted all over the venues that takes you to our Venmo account (which also conveniently has the same name of our band). We do mashups of pop/rock/punk/funk songs that get people dancing. We have lots of cool merch, from shirts to hats to bandanas to stickers to scented candles to baby onesies and more. We have our own stage lights and preprogrammed light show that follows every hit/verse/chorus/etc. Our transitions between songs are tight and immediate, with banter breaks (about 1 break every 4 songs) scheduled as part of every set list. Every banter break has a pre-determined subject for the two guys with mics to talk about (tip the band, buy merch, see us at this next date and time, if you forget to tip us tonight we love morning-after-Venmo’s at this account, story about this next song, etc). Our audience and fan base is made up of college students, working professionals, retirees, and even the judge who excused me from jury duty because I had a show during trial and he loves our band. We are not background music, we are a party.
Audiences still love live music and are doing just fine in 2023. What is your band doing to draw them in and keep them engaged?
Eek 4 horns? I can hardly deal with one![]()

As far as reimbursement or such, did anyone work out any details with the benefit host, such as food or drinks?I've been gigging for about 30 years. I cut my teeth as a super young guy in an oldies band playing doo wop and Motown to upstate NY audiences who danced and clapped and smoked their butts off.
While Boston audiences were more reserved in the oughties and tens, still lots of clapping and dancing.
I've been living in North Carolina for over 8 years. Metro Charlotte. Banking, not that different from Boston.
Lately I've noticed that audiences are going stepford. No clapping. No interaction. No dancing. About half the gigs I'm at are at some level "Wallpaper Gigs"...where the band might as well be a potted plant designed for ambiance.
We are all mostly top players in our 40s and 50s. We play a bit of everything in order to please a wide selection of people from all demographics -rock, pop, disco, country, R&B.
We're not ugly. Sure the singer could use to lose 30 lbs but he wears his soda belly well.
Something happened to society between 1993 and 2023. In 1993 everyone would at least golf clap after a song ended. It's polite.
Last night my trio was asked to play a benefit for leukemia. Someones daughter had actually survived and they were doing a fundraiser. We were all but ignored, they didn't offer us any of the communal food...the family of the girl didn't acknowledge us.
A paid wallpaper gig is one thing. I get a Benjamin to be ignored.
A wallpaper benefit gig is actually unacceptable. I've been honing my singing and playing skills for 40 years! We donated our time, skills, and the use of $10,000 in gear to a good cause.
I'm disgusted. I'm sure I'm just an old man yelling at clouds- but I think I'm done playing benefits unless there's concessions made for the band (FOOD FOOD FOOD!).
I worked half a day at my day job and lost $$$ to be a hothouse flower centerpiece?
I can't wait to make a hundy this Saturday getting ignored. It's so much better than volunteering for it...
Every one of the late night shows has a killer live band and feature live music almost every night and I don't think we've been "trained" by anybody regarding music. Decent cover bands and their fan bases are aging out. Original music in bars and clubs has always been a hard sell.Unfortunately, audiences have been trained by the mass media to like cr@p. Decent cover bands find it a lot harder to gets gigs, yet the most popular music on television are shows like The Masked Singer and The Voice - basically cover juke boxes (with sanitized versions of songs). Original bands are finding it even harder to get gigs, while shows that had live music (Carson, Letterman, Sullivan, the other variety shows prevalent in the 69s-70s) are all but extinct.
It’s shocking now to think about but the first time I ever heard a live band in a bar I was already 20 years old. I remember the disorientating effect it had on me. Instruments seemed to be coming from everywhere at once at times popping out of the mix in jarring ways. There was so much contrast, texture and messiness. It was mesmerizing. And all the while I could feel the music pressuring the room, moving the air around, traveling through me. I walked out of there changed. The next morning I had to reassess everything I thought to be true up to that point. I had the realization that people made that music. Imperfect human beings in imperfect circumstances, in sweaty rooms, affected by the audience, the environment, the temperature….everything was variable. I had only heard music out of speakers, mixed, mastered, perfection. I returned to hear more live music and sort of educated myself on what live music really was. Most people don’t take that time anymore. The order of the day is content, consumption and convenience. There’s a video going around now of a woman singing Whitney at a wedding and absolutely crushing it while people sit at their tables with uncomfortable blank expressions. It reminds me that music is also very intimate, both performer and audience are quite vulnerable in the exchange. People are less comfortable with that kind of intimacy.Here's my theory:
Younger people are now used to "perfect" music-- the backing tracks are "played" by machines and the human voice is Auto-tuned. So just the *sound* of people playing instruments live (with no backing tracks and/or a drummer with a click in his/her ear) is ancient. It would like a young Led Zeppelin fan in 1975 hearing Bing Crosby.
And, as Herbie Hancock observed, popular music today revolves around celebrity more than music. Fans are interested in *celebrity* singers' lives, and interested in watching how the *celebrity* judges on "The Voice" react to the contestants. So, going to the local bar to hear some cool guitar solos will lose out to spending that time using your phone to investigate whether or not Taylor Swift attended that Chiefs game.
Finally, as others have said, the setlists matter. How many folks younger than 60 will get excited by "Brown-Eyed Girl"?
Someone made a good suggestion earlier about narrowing down the style, instead of "something for everyone." It seems counterintuitive; however, things are siloed these days. People have the option of listening only to streaming music which has been curated for their specific tastes, via algorithms. Maybe that's why cheesy tribute bands do so well-- a Pink Floyd fan at a Pink Floyd tribute band concert absolutely knows that the blissful experience won't be interrupted by anything non-Floyd.
And the days of massive culturally shared experiences are over. We've all heard about (or lived through) the stories about the month or so after "Sergeant Pepper" was released-- how you could walk down the street and hear it coming out of every window and doorway. These days, Beyonce and Taylor Swift might be the biggest musicians, but even so, you *do* need to seek out their music to hear it.
In other words, not everyone at a bar will recognize a Beyonce song when a cover band plays it, if their personalized streaming "channels" don't feature her.
Just my 2 cents...
We do a bar band version of Halo. It's very bass and drums oriented.Very true. Pop music doesn't drive the culture like it used to. If you pulled random people off the street and asked them to name or identify a Beyonce or Taylor Swift song, most of them couldn't do it. And those are the 2 biggest artists I can think of. There's very little point in cover bands trying to play that type of material unless they're a tribute to that artist.
And how do people react to it? Blank stares?We do a bar band version of Halo. It's very bass and drums oriented.
Because, frankly, my BL is no Beyonce.