What happens when the majority of the public doesn’t care about dynamic, face to face engagement? That’s where we’re headed.
Sorry to hear that's your experience these days.
Not trying to humble-brag; We're doing ok with it. Luck-of-the-draw? I don't think so.
A local bar-owner gives me first-crack at a once-a-month Friday where we play an hour and a quarter show set, followed by hosting a jam. I hire a drummer and a "special guest" - usually a local heavy hitter on guitar and vocals who knows how to play to the room and honestly engage the crowd.
Drummer and I woodshed his set and play it as if we've been playing together for years. Bar ring is profitable; We also do well with the band tip jar. This is an in-town dive bar where competition is fierce. Judging from the outside, it looks like a dodgy place in a dodgy neighborhood, but it's actually earned a rep for having a good, friendly vibe inside.
There's another venue in town; a top-level listening room where I sometimes do sideman work, that charges cover and packs 'em in on weekends. Owner is a high-skills musician who's good at choosing bands that are tops in their craft when it comes to both talent and engaging the room.
Outside of town in the far 'burbs and far-outlying rural areas, there're venues my regular band plays where there's been a steady crowd, where we've insured profitable nights at the bars.
These are perfect storm venues where you've got a culture that still likes to go out on Fri/Sat night vs staying home watching NBA/MLB/NHL on TV (not me, I'm DVRing the games during gigs LOL!) mixed with a home-spun, story-telling, engaging BL with a great voice and extremely charismatic persona. You can't help but be drawn in.
Will this change? Yeah/probably; It always has. But for now I'm blessed. I'll try to continue to adapt as long as I'm able. No way I'd ever have guessed I'd be playing half the music I'm playing now - and actually enjoying it. 'Wouldn't be doing it if I hadn't been open to the idea of change.