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when people act weird about your gear...

Gear doesn't make the worship environment, and neither do the songs by themselves. True worship music comes from engaged leading and honest worship from the musicians. I'm happy to help out churches, but if they can't get that point, I won't be coming back in the future. I'm extremely blessed and fortunate to have a spot on my church's team and it's one of the best worship experiences you can find IMO.

P.S. Where in CO are you?
Aurora, east of Denver!
 
@friendlybass I'm really curious how you stop this problem. Do you have locking wheels or something? And would the height of the pedals above the ground make it harder to step on them? I think it looks really cool but I'm wondering how well it works...
Great question, I cranked the nuts on the wheels down so it takes a fair bit of oomph to move it. I actually love the height and prefer the flat angle. I originally intended to remove the trucks and bolt the wheels to the backside to tilt it but this was so elegantly simple I fell in love. I find it way more functional for me than when I used pedaltrain
 
I had a church gig yesterday and thought I did everything right. It's a suit and tie sort of church so myself and the other musicians (my dad on drums and the pastor who I do most of my work through on keys) dressed nicely but the usual protocol for this circle of churches is the band dresses down from the pastor like 2-3 notches. Here's where this gig went odd.
I play very non gospel instruments typically cause its not really my thing usually, which I've taken crap for but my gear is what I've got, and having nice shirts for these gigs is one thing but a bass I use exclusively for this is not what Im about. So initially a deacon/associate pastor comments on my bass pretty rudely, calls it a kid bass and asked if that's all I've got to play. It's an MIJ jaguar bass in oly white, I didn't exactly show up with my SG bass or Jr. Jet. Then the whole worship team gets to talking about my pedalboard (a skateboard with pedals mounted to it) and asking if I really needed to use it or if it could be positioned out of sight. I did so to prevent a scene cause it wasn't my church, and I didn't really need the pedals, I brought it because I dislike unmounting my sansamp, vibe, chorus, and delay or removing my OD's and fuzz just for one gig.
So what's etiquette like in this situation? Do I acknowledge my less than professional appearing gear and back down like I did? Or should I have used what I use tastefully and do my thing regardless of what others say/think? Can we all agree the deacon was out of line to diss my bass?
Thanks for listening to the rant TB. I attached pictures of the gear in question for your scrutiny.View attachment 711846 View attachment 711847
I don't care how much or how often I might catch crap for this...but, WRONG CHURCH...WRONG BRETHREN. Get yourself to a place and people who truly believe in the lord's intent rather than the collective narcissism of local religion. Sorry to offend some...but, it's real.
 
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Not going to read all the comments...but I see nothing wrong with the bass. The skateboard on the other hand. Nope. Does look a little tacky and unprofessional. Can't see the functionality in that at all and those pedals deserve better. You can slap all that on a (used) pedaltrain and have them on the proper angle.
I appreciate the critique man, I actually moved from pedaltrain products because I wasn't happy with the weight, angle, or price. They work for most everybody but my little 20$ board works for me. I'd never received this level of criticism on it before in a church setting and so was caught off guard, most churches don't really fuss as long as your sound is tasteful
 
Hey I just reread the OP's OP.

Dude! Talk to your DAD about this! He's the drummer. Is he a member of the church???? If it were my dad I would be able to say flat out to him "Hey ,Dad. How bout you shown me the part in the Bible where their behavior is acceptable. Otherwise, I won't go back in that building."

Seriously, if your dad is "plugged in" to this church you should be able to talk this out with him. Then perhaps he can go with you to talk this out with them. Your dad just standing by and letting them kick you around ain't cool either.

I can't imagine anyone at my church talking like they did to you. But if they ever did that to my kid, we would have what we call here in the South a "Come to Jesus" meeting. And I don't mean praying with each other.
Not plugged in at all we were playing as a favor. We're a relatively well known gaggle in our network of churches and often fill in for small events. He was standing next to me and understood my upset look. He set me up for a dope solo and bought beer and sandwiches later so all was well
 
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I crank the wheel nuts down so it rolls when I want but not otherwise. The only time ir disobeys is when I set it on the tail of my car. I actually have more issues keeping the Velcro on the pedals when it gets hot than the skateboard rolling

That's really fascinating. I suppose if you've less pedals you can use a pennyboard too. Coolest DIY pedalboard idea I've seen in a while.

And yeah I reallly really hate the velcro-glue-melting thing ARGH.
 
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Sorry to hear about your experience, friendlybass. I've been an active member of worship teams across the country for over a decade; some with strict dress policies (suit and tie), and some with more relaxed attire. I would be understanding if they asked me to look a certain way, or move certain gear to follow the vibe of their congregation. No, I wouldn't buy a new bass, in your case.

I encourage you to tell the pastor/team how their actions made you feel. Maybe even reference Proverbs 15:1-2 "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly." Whether or not they are paying you, they do need to respect you. The church is supposed to be a place of worship and fellowship. If they're not willing to do that, I would look for a new home church after telling them why I'm leaving.

Blessings,
Nathan
Bro my name is also Nathan. I appreciate the sympathy and wise advice, to all not just a fellow Nate dawg you rock TB
 
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First off, I am going to buy a bashed-up old skateboard and make me a pedalboard. Of course, then I'll have to buy pedals. I'm seeing potential here for guitards... I live near a good snowboarding mountain!

But I think I'd have left it home for the liability reasons mentioned. Technically speaking maybe not your problem, but it's a risk you don't need and the church doesn't need. I'm not sure that's why the guy objected, though.


Clearly, the EB is the devil's instrument. Anyone can see that. Cast it out.

Incorrect, sir. The trombone is the devil's instrument. There's an augmented 4th built right into the slide! What could be more diabolical?


...As for the bass, well, I'd just say "it is what I own, so it's what I use, unless you kind folks want to buy me the bass you'd like me to play".

I've played several basses at several churches. I cannot believe yours was an issue for anyone. That's on him, not you or your gear. I guess if I had been in your shoes I'd have either ignored him if possible or said 'I see' or 'that's interesting' or something totally non-committal that says nothing at all, and I'd have the mindset that unless he's the gal/guy who hired me or the guy/gal who's leading me, his opinion just doesn't matter and I can ignore it. He thinks he knows something, or he's trying to yank your chain or pee in some corner to make sure his territory is adequately marked.

More than likely he'll go away at that point. A lot of these people just have an inflated sense of self-importance and if you don't react, they'll return the favor by not bothering you. The church I used to play at / do FOH for had a very strict policy about ANYONE pitching crap to the band or tech folks. Not even pastors got to do it - everybody ran complaints through the BL or the tech director. Obviously the people in the pews could say what they want, but all of us referred them to the BL or tech director. Those two were responsible for filtering the noise from the legit comments. If there was something we needed to hear, they'd pass it on.

Move on. Either mentally or actually.
 
how do the bits of you that are not covered by the suit look?
The skateboard and choice of effects suggest possible tattoos, flesh tunnels and extreme hairstyle. Maybe that dude was put off by you and took a weird approach by insulting your bass.

I mean - bringing a Fender to a church gig. Nothing wrong with that.
I'd say, of all basses out there, the most suitable ones would be any boutique model with plain wood finish (except maybe the more extreme designs by Carl Thompson) or one of the classics. Fender - copy of a Fender or maybe a Gibson/Epiphone hollowbody or a Höfner violin bass.
Haha try one tattoo reading "MOM" totally covered by my button down shirt and cardigan, my AR670-1 military hairstyle I maintain cause I'm an army reservist, and a short well trimmed in between training weekends beard! I'm a punk rocker at heart but taste and versatility maketh the bass player.
 
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I appreciate the critique man, I actually moved from pedaltrain products because I wasn't happy with the weight, angle, or price. They work for most everybody but my little 20$ board works for me. I'd never received this level of criticism on it before in a church setting and so was caught off guard, most churches don't really fuss as long as your sound is tasteful

It's all cool, man. You asked for opinions and why you got some backlash and I can see why the skateboard may have been off putting. But the remark about the bass was mean spirited and ignorant.

The unfortunate thing is some TBers made an example out of one particular deacon and gave the old '...and that's exactly why I stopped going to church...' attitude.
 
I can only speak from my personal experience; I've heard of church bands having internal politics, but I've never experienced it personally.

When I play at church, I dress business casual, like the rest of the worship team. The pedal board, yeah, I can see an issue with the look, if you're up on a stage and everyone can see it. (We don't have a stage- the altar is raised but we're against the rear wall behind it. Nobody can see our feet.) As for the bass- there's tons of variation, obviously, but the current trend is towards 5-strings with active pickups. So an inexperienced deacon may have seen the 4-string and thought it was for a beginner. (I play a $350 4-string MIM Squier Jazz bass, at least till my Warmoth comes in, and nobody's complained. In fact, most lay people don't even know how many strings a bass has.) I have heard of worship leaders being a bit snobbish, but it's usually the silliest snobbery- like someone who pans American beer, then drinks Becks (yep, the Becks in the USA is made in the USA.) They hear name brands, and expect all the "best" musicians to play them. The deacon probably didn't see the Fender logo on the headstock, or he wouldn't have said a thing.
 
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Never played a gig where I've had that kind of interaction but I look at it like this. I will make accommodations for certain things depending on the gig. For example, I am currently playing in a working cover band, bars, clubs, etc. Those crowds and venue owners don't usually care what gear we play as long as at works and sounds good.

Now if a wedding comes up and they requested some coordination in that we all play the same color instruments, provided we have uniform color guitars available to us, I would absolutely comply with the request. At the end of the day a wedding gig, much like a church gig is a different entity. The bride and groom are going to have a vision for their event and as the band it stands to reason that modest requests should be accommodated. The pay is often higher so there are likely to be more requests made of the band, a number of requested songs, input on appearance etc.

There is also the recording session dynamic, those are cases where a producer or the song writer might outright say, I want a passive bass used, when 99% of the time you play active.

It just comes down to what kind of gig it is. Original band where all have equal say, play what you like. Bar gigs, same thing. Weddings, recording sessions for a singer songwriter, or a church where you are a guest player, make accommodations when possible. In fact in those situations I tend to ask about requests and expectations ahead of time and the client usually appreciates that.
 
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I appreciate the critique man, I actually moved from pedaltrain products because I wasn't happy with the weight, angle, or price. They work for most everybody but my little 20$ board works for me. I'd never received this level of criticism on it before in a church setting and so was caught off guard, most churches don't really fuss as long as your sound is tasteful
I started building mine today! Thanks for the inspirition. Rock on!
 
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