When I'm on the selling end, I expect similar behavior from buyers - but too seldom see it. In particular, I have zero patience with the douchebag who can't recognize a great bargain when it's right in front of his nose - or even if he can, is still determined to squeeze the very last dollar of concession out of me that he possibly can. At some point, it ceases to be about business...and morphs into some kind of twisted personal competition.![]()
I just had an experience with THAT guy. I had a Yamaha RBX170 I picked up in a strip club parking lot for $40 bucks about a year ago. A few months ago, I put an ad out for $60 dollars, for the bass in pretty good shape, minus a missing knob. I'm getting lots of calls on it, I mean, where can you really buy basses for $60 dollars right? I'm assuming my price was low, since most people told me to not sell it and that I'm coming right away type of thing. I wasn't trying to make a killing on it, just a VERY fair price.
This one guy says he is interested, and out of the norm, I drove a little extra to meet him where he lives as I had the bass in my trunk, and it was coming home from work, so it was pretty much on the way.
He is an obvious noob, and looks the bass over. Asks me a few beginner questions. He pulls out his cash and then says, "I'll give you $40 for it." I told him no, and that I had a TON of people wanting it and that I came here to meet you at your place (outside) and you %$#@%$ low ball me? I asked him if he has ever seen any other basses advertised at $60?
He turned and walking away, said, "Oh well". I called him an a#@hole for wasting my time, and I would never have come if he was going to low ball me. I was forthright in my dealings. I told him good luck in finding a playable $40 dollar bass.
He changed his mind at the last minute, and handed me $59, yes, $59, not the full $60. I couldn't believe it. I just wanted to be rid of it, and gave it to him. It made me angry enough that I wouldn't do it again.
I sort of agree with the OP about the community part, in as so much that I realize in retrospect that I wanted my bass, however insignificant, to go to someone deserving and appreciative of such a deal.
Now, I say my price is FIRM before meeting with them, and if that's not OK, I don't meet with them.